What my friend should do?
By sunita64
@sunita64 (6469)
India
February 13, 2009 5:08am CST
My friend was having a long distance affair for last five years. Her boy friend came to visit her not alone but with a colleague who refused to leave them alone. Her boy friend did nothing to be alone with her to talk or for sharing his feelings.So to me it seems affair is all over , what do you think? What would you do in such situation.
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5 responses
@rakeshlalwani (320)
• India
16 Feb 09
In this situation the girl talk with boy in clear-cut that you want to this relation more or just long distance relation you want.
Otherwise the matters will be unsorted and both relation will be breakout one day.
The boy also not seems that he wants to meet girl, bcoz if he came with colleagues then also he wants to meet alone with her.
Meeting alone is only the way they both give and take there thinking, there nature, there future plans.
So the best way the boy anyhow get time and meet alone with your friend, otherwise she not advisable to make furthure love relationship
@okoyskabo (186)
• Philippines
13 Feb 09
if i were your friend, i would be very frank to the colleague that my boyfriend and i need time to be alone. being sweethearts, we need to talk about private matters that doesn't concern that friend. if that friend still refuses to leave and my boyfriend won't do anything about it, then, i think it's about time they end their 5 year long distance relationship.
@bdugas (3578)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Appears to me he brought the extra for a reason, if he had wanted to be alone he could of told the other to take a walk. I too believe the affair is over, are you saying there is a spouse when you say affair? Either they have found something more interesting to him or he has decided to stay where he is. I think she/he is better off to get out of it now and just mark it off of lesson learned. Men are users and will just walk off as if nothing ever happen. Sorry for your friend but I believe we all have gone into such relationships knowing it could end in a heart beat.
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
13 Feb 09
Hello sunita64! I have a long distance love affair too and after 2 years of talking, he finally came here to meet me. He came here in the Philippines alone and it's his first time to come here. We spent most of the time alone and we have a great time together travelling.
Going back to the situation, I guess there's something wrong. If her boyfriend is interested with her, he might find a way to be alone with her. But like what you said, it's as if he is not making ways to be alone with her so it's either he is gay or that he doesn't like her...hehehe.
