How should we pass on Saint Valentine's Day?

China
February 13, 2009 7:38am CST
Tomorrow is the Saint Valentine's Day.It is a beautiful day,you and your girl or boyfriend should watch a film, or you can receive a beautiful flowers or chocolates.but my boyfriend is out who is not going to come back because of work. As I remembered,since we got together,every on this day, he ususlly is far from me and in other city,but he always gave me a surprise and stand in front of me. However tomorrow? I don't know? I know his job is more importment. if your friend is not beside you,how do you do? Do you feel uncomfortable?
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@jillbeth (2705)
• United States
13 Feb 09
I'm sure your boyfriend would prefer to be with you on Valentine's Day, but you're right, his job is important also. A man needs to know his priorities, and a good woman will understand. Valentine's Day is really just an over-hyped holiday meant to sell candy and flowers. We should let our loved ones know we love them every day of the year! I've been with the same man for 25 years this month, and he is so unromantic but I know I am the one he wants to be with. If I get candy for Valentine's Day it's because our daughter sent him out to buy it! It's really just another day for us, no special plans yet, although we will have the evening alone together (which doesn't happen often enough since our daughter and her three kids also live here). We might go out to dinner, but we'll probably just stay home and enjoy our bit of privacy. I do miss him when he's not home. A few times over the years he has had to travel for work, and last fall he was gone to a trade show for four days. When he is away like that, I feel a big empty place inside me. But a short phone call is all I need to fill that hole back up.
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• China
13 Feb 09
Yes, you are right. I agree with you. Although he is out for his work, and I miss him everytime but a short phone is enough.The Valentine's day is just a day that let us to remember we love each other. As us,everyday is a Valentine'day.