My Lot Discussions

zomg!!! He found out all about our gang!! How clever, Sunil! Yes, we are all conspiring against the males. We are taking over planet Earth. We don't reply to posts that are from men. Uh oh I broke the rule now that I have replied to you. If you want more posts change your name to something feminine. Maybe sunshine-girl or something like that. It will make your discussions flood with responses! hehe *wink wink* ;)

I don't know what other women do, but if I have something to say I don't care who starts the discussion.

I guess I have not noticed this at all. I would have to say I think the majority of mylot is more of females so maybe it's just the majority responds first. As for me, I respond in the order they come to me. I don't pay any attention at all to whether the discussion was started by a male or female.

So this is the reason you are secretly down on woman...lol...just kidding...with us all on here, you men cant get a word in edgewise and when you do, we dont hear you!!...lol Ok, so what was the question????...hehehehe!

Well if you say you are new here, I am much newer than you. See friend that 'ladies first' concept is everywhere and possibly there is more traffic at their discussion. But what you told is a new experience for me as within this short span I have never noticed people thronging to the female stated topic more than a male started one. I think more people go by the nature of the topic. As a newbie I have stated posting topics and yesterday had put one and I am amazed to see so many of them responding to me. I am still not done commenting back all of them. Most people what I have observed go for the quality stuff and see how interacting the topic would be. I do not believe that there is any gender bias going on here. And the gang thing is far remote.

i wouldn't say that its a bias.. i respond to topics and discussions that interest me. Doesn't matter if its started by male or female. i never even thought about whether there was an internal conflict going on at mylot. i am here to enjoy the topics and discussions and do so in engaging and stimulating fashion. if there is a bias i guess i haven't seen it yet because i am just as new.

If there is a gender war here, I wasn't invited to it. I do tend to respond to my friends discussions first and more of them are women, I guess. But other than that, I jump in on a discussion if it interests me. For your own discussions, try doing the following: 1. Always (or mostly always) reply to everybody who leaves a response on your discussion 2. visit other peoples discussions 3. add friends (even female ones lol)

no. i do think there are a majority of women here. but i felt the same way for the first 6 mths or so. i found out it takes quite a while to get enough friends and attention here to get a lot of responses. i've seen a lot of males get hundreds of responses on 1 discussion. you'll see. hang in there.

Hi frnd, Now here you new to mylot.Good keep going responses,start a new discussions ratings,upload photo and add more friends.Mylot is good site and better. Daily posts good responses you will increase more money.

I've been here for two months and although I have run into the occasional man against woman discussion,I haven't seen a gender war. If there were I wouldn't be involved in it anyway..I like men for the most part..lol.

hi sunil, there's also an element of luck here in mylot but sometimes, it's more of the right strategy and attitude. I'm still quite recent here at mylot so I don't really know the rules and strategies of the game, but it helped me when I started adding many friends, and posting discussions that seem interesting, and posting my discussions at lists with quite a lot of members already. But the key is to really be friendly, polite and honest in your opinion. You may even encounter undesirable personalities here but that's life. You just gotta go with the tide. And lastly, as far as I know, there aren't any gangs here or group of people who formed themselves against some mylot members. There's no gender clash as far as I have observed.Well there are people who have formed a certain camaraderie for sometime so that newcomers feel left out sometimes, but they'll turn out fine. Good luck

I don't think there is an Gender war in this site.. people replies depending on what caught their attention or what intrigues them in the discussion.. When I reply to some discussion here I see to it that it concerns me and that I know something with the topic..

haahahahhahaha!!! I'm new to this site, started about two -three weeks ago... and I haven't noticed such stuff... I'm just enjoying all sorts of topics that all the other members are posting and It doesn't really matter if the poster is a male nor a female... so long as the topic is interesting! ^_^ I suggest you just be happy with mylotting! ^_^ hehe

I'm a woman, I'm new to mylot, and I don't get that many responses to my recent topics either. I think it's just the discussion. Some will be interested and others will not. I don't think it has anything to do with gender. I think someone else once asked if it had to with content size, and I think that very well may be a factor. Some people want short sweet things to read, others prefer more depth. That's the beauty of an online community such as this.

no, i am not aware of any gender war going around here in mylot. i am a woman, sunil, but plenty of the folks around here thought that i was a guy since i am a licensed civil engineer in my country. maybe the fault was mine because i didn't stipulate that i am a woman. no, i do not get lots of responses, either. however, it will good for you to know that what is imprtant is that you get a response to a discussion. so once you get the first response to your posted discussion, there is no more worry there anymore. so, my friend, settle in mylot for good and do not put so much pressures on yourself. myself, i do not generate so many discussions of my own. i always prefer to respond to discussions. still, when i do this, i always meet it to payout month after month.

That is a generalization and very untrue! I am a woman and very few of my discussions have gotten responses. Most of them have only gotten about 2, so I was flabbergasted when I finally got one with 13. I think the idea is that most myLotters respond to discussions from their friends first, so the people with loads of replies likely have hundreds of friends. I don't have that many friends yet, so my discussions tend to fall back without being looked at.

Interesting finding. I have not noticed it before. But there can be plenty reasons for that. I got a theory for this:) It is possible here on myLot is more women as men. Women are more talkative and they care more about women stuff. Men are generally interested in different topics which women do not find that much interesting, so they respond more in women' topics as men'. But I can be wrong and there could be a big secret conspiracy against all men here in myLot. I hope no:))

Hi sunil. That is something I have not thought about until now. From my experience I usually reply to a discussion once it interests me. It will be something I look out for just to see if your findings are right. Maybe the women are winning the gender war on myLot, who knows lol. Great discussion topic.

Hmmm... that sounds wierd mate.. I don't believe the gender of the discussion starter really matters a lot on the way other members would respond. I believe what matteres is how you present your topic and how interesting it is. Even if you're a girl or boy if your topic dont seem to suit my interest, then don't expect me to respond. Just my opinion mate...