After broken, u surely expect someone to love u again right?

Hi there! I just broke up with my girlfriend for 8 years and it was really a painful and traumatic experience for me, but I still want to love someone else. I don't want to deprive myself of love just because my ex did bad in our relationship. I believe that not all girls are like her. She's not just meant for me and I know someday I will have someone who is far better than her. Right now I am still in the process of healing. Right now, actually, I don't know how to get over her. My friends would tell me that I have to find someone new so could divert my attention but I don't want to be selfish to someone else. I don't want to use that someone to forget my ex. It is so unfair! Maybe I am staying out of love right now but it will not be forever. When I am emotionally ready again, of course, I would really love to love someone new.

Not really if I love someone and got my heart broken I would not be looking for love for a while. I mean it's kind of heard to love someone else right after you just got your heart broken by the one you love the most. I would be by my self for a while because some men like to hook up with a girl after she has had her heart broken because they know it is easy to get the girl. I would wait till I was back on my feet and over the heart brake to look for love again. Sometimes after a big heart brake some people just think it's best if they stay by then self instead of having to worry about another person.

Yes, i've been in love so many times, but always end up with broken heart.. Honestly, i'm hoping someone who could love me for who i am, accept me.. though, i already been moved on from my past relationship, but i'm always hoping and praying for a good and lasting relationship..

We all go through breakups, and most of us fall in love again with no problem. I have been through a few breakups, but I never thought that I would never ever find someone else again, why close your mind to a lovely possibility. I am with a great guy now, and I am thankful for those past breakups! And no, I do not expect anyone to heal a broken heart, I make sure I am healed before I go into a relationship so I do not have a lot of baggage that can hurt it. You want to start fresh and new and not even have to think about your past loves, or what you had once thought was love. I am with a great guy now, we have a great relationship, and we both came into our relationship with no pain from the past and it gave us a great start.

Human life is filled with ups & down. its like roller coaster ride. Everyone go through pain espesially in love. I do have seen many people who tells that they have broken there heart & seeks someone else love to cure that or fall for someone. Its human tendency that to get attracted towards the nice looking things or humans but according to me thats not called love & i bet if we do that again we will break our heart. Me to have broken my heart in the matter of love & later my mind had turned towards other in her absence but suddenly i came out of that thinking to myself that what i am doing is wrong & i do prefer to try my level best in all possible way (only in good terms which do not hurt them) to get back her & lead happy life with her by looking after her & keep her happy. If thats not possible i would rather choose to be alone than marrying or falling to someone else. I do belive that if we truly love someone we should get them in our life & look after them happily rather than giving up our love & falling for someone.

I would expect someone else to love me and heal my broken heart but God knows whether that person would be able to love me after knowing that I have come out of a breakup.Definitely she will have apprehensions about the relationship but I will do my best to keep this relationship because only a person who has gone through the traumatic experience of a breakup knows what it feels like being deprived of love.