Decision on marraige
By forslahiri
@forslahiri (1042)
India
February 14, 2009 6:35am CST
When exactly you finally decided to marry?How much 'impulse'do you think played the role?And how much analytical thinking and judgement? Did all these play roles in taking the Final Decision?
2 responses
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
17 Feb 09
It is a tough question to ask, and I don't really have an answer to it. I want to get married, but I also afraid sometimes. I am afraid to end up divorce, or she no longer loving me as before. I afraid that I couldn't find any topic to talk about with her, or scare to share our happiness and sadness together for the eternity. That is what I afraid of, million of reasons. Most importantly, I am afraid that I am not good enough for her, that special somone in my life. There were always comparisons. I am not good enough, or I couldn't give her the kind of living luxury that she deserves. Sometimes, a final decision is hard to make.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
18 Feb 09
Hi,
With all Ur Negative thoughts and apprehensions,if ONE comes to U & say -'I accept U,as U r.I promise U to keep U happy, will not compare,will be happy with what U'll give'...THEN?
Wait someone listening....HE will arrange Ur Partner soon,...Keep Faith!!!!!
@maanrodriguez (604)
• Philippines
14 Feb 09
for me it didnt really involve any deeo thinking, i just felt that I was ready. we have been together for 5 years when we started talking about marriage. I remember one of my closest friends told me that you just cant explain the feeling. my fiance asked me to marry him in 2007 but I told him I wanted to wait until 2010. but when one summer day in 2008, I just felt ready. so here we are neck-deep with wedding plans.
