snooping on your man
By russotm
@russotm (14)
United States
February 14, 2009 3:21pm CST
do any of you snoop?? been with my guy for almost three years now and just can't stop snooping. have never found anything to be worried about. but everyday i check his accounts, his phone, his mail. sometimes several times a day. curious to see if anyone does this or how to stop the madness
1 response
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
14 Feb 09
Hi, with my ex-husband I did snoop and I found out why I couldnt trust him but with my b/f I don't even go into his cell phone and wallet whenI have access to them.I feel more comfortable with my b/f than I ever did with my ex-husband. I'm not sure how you could stop doing that, maybe analyze why you are doing it, trust issues came from somewhere.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
14 Feb 09
Does he have any idea you are doing this? Has he ever caught you going thru his things? Only way to possibly put a stop is to not do it one time during the day when you usually snoop.Kind of like weening yourself from snooping.Get back to me and let me know how you're doing.
@russotm (14)
• United States
14 Feb 09
he knows and sometimes gets mad if i questions anything. but always gives me an answers (that can be verified). i've suggested to him to get a different checking account that i don't have access to and to password protect his phone so i can't snoop. but he doesn't he says he has nothing to hide - which so far he doesn't. but i can see it's starting to create a strain
