Will you love a fat girl ?
By shiqimeng
@shiqimeng (25)
China
February 14, 2009 9:53pm CST
Many persons say that appearance is not that important but will you love a fat girl ?
I'm tired of losing weight and i just want to be a fat but happy girl .But it isn't easy /
9 responses
@cortypants (604)
• United States
15 Feb 09
Well, I'm a girl, so my opinion may not matter as I probably won't fall in love with you, lol, but my feelings are that looks really aren't as important as self confidence and being comfortable and happy with yourself. I think you have to love yourself first, before anyone else can truly love you. If you are happier at a heavier weight, then stay that way, don't change yourself for someone else. If you are comfortable in your own skin, people will see that and gravitate towards you. Would you truly be happy with someone who was only with you because you were thin? Or someone who may break up with you if you gained weight? Love yourself first!
@shiqimeng (25)
• China
22 Feb 09
Thank you so much that when i saw what you wrote here for me .I'm really encouraged by what you said .
Yes ,you are right i must love myself first !
To be happy ,to be confident ,to love myself !
Happy mylot!
@karenlapniten (83)
• Philippines
15 Feb 09
I am a fat girl but my bf says that he loves me even though i am like this. We are happy together,,,this is our 2 years together..
@shiqimeng (25)
• China
19 Feb 09
yes ,love is everything ,but i still can not find my true love and i always wonder if it is because i'm too fat ,hah ~
@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
15 Feb 09
There are people out there that enjoy larger women. It's just a matter of finding the right person. I'm a fat girl myself and I'm happily dating someone that loves me for me. I know that some people don't enjoy larger women, but they do exist. It's just a matter of weeding through the idiots before you find the right one.
@sheenarobins (547)
• Philippines
15 Feb 09
Hello,
Welcome to mylot! Some men like the one's with a little fat. I found that out by experience. I'm a little chubby and the bf's always love this type of girl. Just be happy where you are and who you are. Stop caring whether someone will like you or bot. Radiate your best quality and cultivate it. Soon enough, you will find the ride enjoyable if you love yourself just as you are.
@shiqimeng (25)
• China
19 Feb 09
yes ,you are right ,just to be what you are and who you are ~i will .
Wish you happy with your boyfriend !
@GADHISUNU (2162)
• India
15 Feb 09
My wife was plump when I chose her. She is getting fatter by the day. Sometimes she becomes conscious of her fat and gets down to exercise only to give up in a two days flat. Though it is necessary to stay trim from health angle, this has not brought down the very active chemistry between us.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
15 Feb 09
Hi,
Love which comes seeing appearance will not last,for long!
Fat Girl with a Golden-Heart any sensible youth will prefer than a sweetlooking girl with Selfish-mind....
=Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@glords (2614)
• United States
15 Feb 09
I'm a fat girl too. I have been ever since I had an 11 pound baby. Not that I was ever a thin girl to begin with, but now I am certainly fat. It is really hard to feel happy and confident when the media tells us that heavy women are worthless and disgusting. I think that if you are willing to accept someone for who they are... too fat or too thin, you will be able to find someone who will accept you for who you are.
@pengbubu (1011)
• China
15 Feb 09
I will love a girl with a little fat but not too fact, I advise you would better lose your weight if you are very fact. You are a chinese girl, me too.
If you cannot success in losing weight, I think to be a kind person will good.
You will finally find your lover.
Happy Mylotting!