love marriage

If I understand your question I would have to say without a doubt, YES. I cannot grasp the concept of marrying anyone I did not love. For me it is the same as having your life planed for you and you must follow along, like it or not. When we marry it is a big adjustment for both men and women. We go from being single and pretty much running our own life to now having to consider someone else in everything we do. So if you do not love them it would make that adjustment much more difficult. I do know that there are customs that do not allow you to make that choice. You are considered not capable of picking the right person so it is done for you. If this is the way you are brought up then you may be able to accept it and I do know that in many cases the pair eventually fall in love once they truly know each other. I can't believe that is always the case. Now from the other perspective. Just because you think you are in love does not mean you will always be happy with your choice. Often, again after your really get to know each other, you find you have nothing in common at all and many then divorce. As for me however I would have it no other way. Only one other experience in life equals falling in love and marrying the one you love. That is children. Once they capture your heart it is forever no matter where life takes you.