a girl wants a relation with me...

brother you are playing safe, it is better to tell her the truth that's all.

I read your last message and I wish you the best. But sometime we jump into things that we feel is best and turn out that it's not. I have a question for you were you interested in the new girl before she showed any interest in you, or did you start noticing her after she notice you. You look young to me and personnally you shouldn't be living with someone playing house that's a big commitment and should be taken seriously. I have a 22 yr. old son that jumped into a relationship and they live together and they battle at lest once a month and I knew it wouldn't work but they are still hanging in there. I wanted him to take his time play the on the field for awhile meet alot of girls get married at 30 or 35 and make me some grandkids. Relationships isn't easy there are ups and downs in all relationships and you have to deal with the bad as well as the good. I wish you all the best life have to offer.

"Oh what a tangled web we wieve when first we practice to deceive". This very famous saying is oh so true. If you really want a long term relationship with this girl what is stopping you from doing that right now. You are living with another girl. What feelings do you have for her? Clearly not what they should be and I dare say she may not know that. Are you there because you can be or are you there because you really want to be. There is nothing more alluring to a man than to have a girl seem attracted to him. It can change how he feels about her without him even knowing it. What you must do is make up your mind what you really want both now and in the future and go for it. Be up front with this girl, actually both of them, about where you stand. Truth often will get you where you want to go in the long run where if you do not tell her where you are it is the same as lieing to her. She finds out another way and she will be history. You take a chance of loosing her if you tell her where you are right now. But what have you lost? Her attention sure but how do you really feel about her? If you really are attracted to her tell her and then tell her that you must separate yourself from your current attachment before you can continue a relationship with her. If you do that you stand a much better chance of being with her long term. Honesty is always the best policy. If you show her that you have the integrity to be up front with her now she will know she can trust you to be truthful in the future.

For me, dont take advantage on that girl because of what she feels from you. What you have to do is that make a nice explanations why you don't want to have a long term relationship now. But if you feel that you have feelings for her too, so let your self decide what's really the best for the both of you. But before you do this, just make sure that you will not hurt others feelings.. goodluck my friend..

If you're not ready for a relationship, just tell her so and that it's not the right time in your life for it.

I not sure if I understand the problem. How can anyone live with a witch unless this is were you want to be. Do you need to be rescured from the witch and using the other girl to help you,or are you happy with the witch and just like the fact that someone else is showing you some attention. Personnally I couldn't live with someone who I'm unhappy with life is to short for that especially If I found someone that I'm interested in. But breaking up is hard to do when you living with them. One of you will have to move out in order for the new relationship to begin in more than just a freindship. there is a lot of things you would have to consider like the emotional detactment,finances,who take what,and if the new girl want what you want it's alot to thing about.good luck!

Can I ask you something about your living life? Is your current girl friend work or in school like you? What make you want to break up with her ? and why you have to wait until Summer? If you are not happy with the one that you are living with then you dont have to wait until summer to break up. I dont understand why people always find a short term relationship. If you think you two won't get along then dont move in together... Try to find out who is better than who, sometimes new girl friend is never the same like your current one... Good luck

If you don't like the girl, tel it to her in a subtle way. But offer friendship if that is the only thing you like. But if you like her, why not give it a try? Who knows she is the one for you.

What you have decided is the correct solution. If you are already living with a girl why just let this girl spoil her life and carrier as well? It is not a very rare case, it happens many time even with me similar things had happened. But I adopted your way I told her the bare truth but still she was not ready to accept the truth and one day I took her home and introduced with my wife and after then she understood the reality but we are still good friends.

I agree with your inclination. Even if you plan on breaking up with your current girl, you have made a commitment to her. Don't begin anything new until you decide and act on your current girl. I know lots of people view living together as non-commital, but I see as a strong commitment to each other, a financial commitment, etc. It shouldn't be broken up lightly.