How Would You Confront a Loved One Who You Think Is Taking Things From You?

Tough call. If you accuse someone of taking something from you, you've already pretty much made up your mind that it's them. If he denies it, will you believe him? I think that's the key. If he says he didn't take them, and you don't believe him, then obviously you no longer trust him. I think before you accuse him you have to be absolutely sure, and take it from there. Good luck!

if i were you, i will not suspicious of my boyfriend. you should believe him even once in your mind, there is little doubt, you should deny at once. in my opinion, trust is the basis of lover getting along with each other.do you think so? so pls forget this thing and believer your boyfriend.

Before you accuse him make sure you know he has a good reason to take them. Does he have pain that he may need them for? If not then could he know someone that needs them. Because you are not sure of this you must be careful that you do not blame the wrong person. Of course you do need to make absolutely sure that you keep track of how many you use so that there is no doubt someone else is taking them. Okay now try this. Place them somewhere that only you know where they are. Make it in a very illogical place so that whoever is doing it would never think to look there for them. This should them stop your loss. Now if he then asks you where they are you know he more than likely is involved. That is the time to confront him.

A person just shouldn't mess with someone else's pain pills. If you think he is then he probably is what I would do is hide them. You get a certain amount to last you a certain length of time when you run out before that time to refill them your in pain and you can't do anything for it but be in pain until your allowed to refill them. You have to think of your own body, you need to start hiding them and then if he asks where they are then you'll know he has sites on them.

I would approach it in a delicate way, such as asking him if he has seen any pills lying around anywhere. Tell him that you seem to have "lost" a few pills and just wonder if he has maybe seen them somewhere around the house. This gives him an out. Of course, you know that they haven't been left lying around, but it give him the opportunity to say something. If he says that he as and he threw them away or something, you could tell him that if he finds any lying around again, you would appreciate it if he gave them to you because you have them for a reason. Then, begin to keep your pills in a place where only you know they are, in your purse, in a drawer, or even locked in your car. I think he would get the hint this way.

If you do stay only in one roof, then it is really possible who else would take it, but i got a question, why in the world would you be bothered for a certain pain killer tablet taken from you? I don't get it, it is not a big deal if a friend or loved one of mine took one of tablets from the medicine cabinet like aspirin, cold medicine, pain reliever or pain killer tablet as long as it does not doctor's prescribed like anti biotics. By the way, don't you communicate easily, its just easy to ask without offending him. Besides if you are into a relationship, you should be black and white to each other. If i need something, i tell it to him, i don't hide or do it secretly so that the trust is there as well as the respect.

I would ask him right out and watch carefully for his reaction. I would hope that I know my boyfriend well enough to know if he were lying to me. I would not be comfortable asking but I would not be able to stop myself.

I thought you were about to say that some of your money is missing! That is indeed a hard thing to confront with! In your case, I think it would be easier if you casually bring up the topic about your pain killers. Just ask him casually if his been using your pain killers. Just as long as you don't sound so suspicious and you show him its nothing too serious then I think that will be ok!

Just ask him has he seen them. Or has he taken them thinking they were his. That way it doesn't sound like an accusation in the slighest. If it's bothering you then you need to confront the situation otherwise it'l get worse and he'll think he can get away with it if it is him. Plus you need to know why it is he's doing it! Good luck :)