what should i do?
By iansheila
@iansheila (175)
Philippines
February 15, 2009 7:09pm CST
my boyfriend meet a motorcyle accident last august 2008.his right maxillary bones and right collar bone andbones near the ear fractured. thank God he survived. but leaving his right arm unable to move and right face as well. imagine, when he smile, his right corner of the lips wont go up and cannot close his right eyes and cannot raise his right eyebrows, but after 2 months, his face was fine.
sad to say up to this datem his right hand still cannot move, its not the bone was fractured, the nerves are stretch as the doctors would say. im just wondering on what support can i give when in fact the doctor cannot even tell if he can fully recovered or not? hope you can help me, he is having self pity now..
2 responses
@dsuh2010 (23)
• United States
16 Feb 09
I agree with the previous response. Love the person no matter what their physical features are. God loves us (John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him may not perish but have eternal life).
God gave His only Son because of His love; try and express true love no matter the obstacles. If people may judge your boyfriend, remember, do not care what other people say. No person can truly judge a person. If you can love your boyfriend for who he really is, then do not leave him. If you truly trust in God (through prayer and reading of the Scriptures), then you may realize the safety of being and confiding with God. Being with him may be something that may be very hard for you, but staying and supporting him is truly a sign of real love and trust.
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@iansheila (175)
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
thank you. it really helped.. i jus need some friends to tell me what shouls i do because im a puzzled of the life that i am having with my boyfriend... i know its not easy for him on what happened, so i would be with him and for him even im miles away. i love him so much...
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
16 Feb 09
Show him all of the things that he is still able to do to help boost his confidence. Emphasize all of his abilities and strengths rather than weaknesses. Be sure that you show him that you love him just as much as you did before the accident.
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@iansheila (175)
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
yeah, im doing it all to help him.. but last december i visit my sister here in England so it is more difficult for me to show that i care for him, but i make everything just for us to have a communication... thanks.
