Do women never forget their first (true) love?

I don't think you could ever forget your first love. Even if they're not your current love. First love is a powerful thing. It doesn't mean that your current love is any less important. I think no matter who you love that person will always be a part of you. Love is a wonderful and significant thing. It stays with you for a long time. That doesn't mean that you still love your first love, it just means that they are a part of you.

I can still remember my first 'love'. If a first love ends then if it was love it is bound to hurt and leave memories both good and bad maybe depending on how and why it ended. It should also leave us something to think about and work on like why did it end in order not to repeat the same mistakes. Love is different each time and there can be no comparison and no person has the right to make another suffer because their own first love went wrong. While reading here I sense pain on your part. Pain and suffering which you should not be made to go through. If your spouse really loves you then she would not make you suffer like this. You are paying the price for her past and this is so unfair. She may well have not forgotten her first love but it is over. She should concentrate on the love she has for you and with you she should contruct her future and not dwell on her past thus doing nothing except make her pain worse and creating more pain and suffering for you which you do not deserve as it was not your fault her first love ended in the first place. I hope this situation will resolve itself soon for the best, whatever that may be for those concerned, but I also hope that youwillnot be made to catty on suffering for much longer through her very selfish ways. Take care rosdimy!

For me, my first love is really i can't forget. But i already forgot the feeling. Though, i never forget the times of our moments, happy moments and sad moments, where we are dating before. For you, if your wife really loves you, i think theres no reason for you to be jealous or think bad with your wife, past is past and you won because you're the one who marry her.

Everyone is different and everyone looks for different things in the person they ultimately fall inlove with. For me my first true love will always be remembered. She is still very hung up on this other guy. In all reality she shouldn't be in another relationship until she is over 'him'. I hope you are able to withstand the emotional side of this and that it works out okay for you.

indeed most women can not forget his first love. Moreover, the first love is not to be his mate. in that case as the memories are not forgotten and so have only beautiful memories. but it does not mean that she would return to his first love. (This is just as unforgettable experience that only) You must understand the feelings of Women, especially your wife.

I can never forget my first love. Maybe because he was the first guy to hate. I'm now with a great man who really takes good care of me. So I think it's your way with her. You should try your best to become better. Let her feel that she is special and that she is the queen of the house. Otherwise she has to accept you the way you are specially that you are married. It's really strange that she make a comparison between you two, and she actually announce that infront of you. Anyways you need to discuss this with her fairly so both of you understand what exactly the other wants.

its been 5 years and hes still on my mind daily. He will always be part of me even if hes not in my life anymore. I still miss him and I think I always will. I always have to fight back comparing anyone I am interested in, to him.

Well,you are right,i couldn;t agree with you more about this.But i think not only women can not forget her first love ,so do men .It's not so easy to forget someone who once share happiness amd sorrow with you .However, never forgetting doesn't mean the one is still the same important as before. She refused to do the same things she had done with her ex ,perhaps it will recall her old memory ,you have metioned her ex is an irreponsible guy,perhaps it was not a happy memory .I have to say sometimes it's tough to let it go ,but you should understand her ,trust her ,if you realy love her and she loves you ,too,i believe one day you will be her the one,just leave her some room for memory !!

here in the country there's a song that goes like this "I remember the boy, but I dont remember the feelings anymore" that's basically the answer to your question...and of course if its a first love, the fact that it is the "first" makes it harder to forget...but if someone keeps on comparing you to her past, maybe she has a problem and maybe you got hooked with her at the point where she is not yet totally over him...it's called love on the rebound....

I don't think so. They fade away whatever you do. Besides, i don't get stuck on past relationships. The moment i closed the book, it's over , i don't reminisce the past. No one can see the future if you look and dwell most of your time thinking the past. You will never get an advantage too, it is not beneficial. So for me, first love is God, it will never be gone. But to man, it is just second, and as i have said, the past is past, the present is important if you see your future to it.

This is definately not dumb. Women remember everything, and their first love is very important!! I remember mine. As have most of the women that have replied to you. However, I would never make comparisons between my first love and my present love. They are two very different people, who love me in two very different ways. You cannot compare love. That is wrong.

Yes you are so very true that 90% of women do not forget their love easily .I have own example when i was just 18 i started loving a guy who was elder to me and since it was my first love i was deeply involved in him and just couldn't image my life without him at that point i reallly didn't think about my future i had set my mind that he will be m,y first and the last love but as the years past by he started ignoring me and that was quite hurting and later he broke with me i was reallly broken and tried patching up with him many a times but it really didn't help even though i have forgotten him now but still sometime i do remember about my crazy love for him .So i could just say that first true love takes time to overcome but memories still remain within you because you always learn from your first experience

I don't think one can ever forget their first true love. Love is an emotion that one experiences, and the first time you feel, it is like no other feeling. I dont believe that one's first true love is the person that you love the most, but I definitely think it is the one you will remember for the rest of your life.

It is true that women never forget their first love. I experienced mine at 13 years old, and I wished he was never my first love. I am now in a relationship with my true love and I wish he was my first and only. It is because I will never forget my first love that I wish he was never my first love in the first place. Im sorry that your spouse says her first love was better than you at certain things. For me, I have to marry a man who exceeds my first love in everything so I will never regret marrying him.

I think that may be true not only for women but for men too. However we all handle it differently. Regardless of what we remember from our past relationships it should then only enhance our current one not make it worse. For your wife to compare you to her first is very unfair and you really need to get to the bottom of it. You may not like what she tells you but she is being very unfair to you by making any kind of comparison. She is with you, not him and there has to be a very good reason for it.

sorry to say this.. but i dont understand why does your wife have to tell you that her first love is 'better than you in all respects'.. she could just kept it to herself.. i have heard also that one can never forget one's first love.. but i guess if you have come to accept that you are not with the person anymore.. and you have moved on and married another - you should / must accept that you have married a totally different person.. who may or may not be as good or as bad as the person you knew before.. i am sure that your wife also would not like if she was ever compared to someone else.. (she's just lucky that you didnt have anyone to compare her with).. so.. i do not think it is fair or very smart of her to do that to you... maybe you should do the same start comparing her with someone.. see if she enjoys it.. ??

No, a woman never forgets her first true love. I would love to forget the first guy that I ever slept with. He was a big jerk! I guess with all the experience that she has, she is comapring you to her past. She may miss what she had. I would have a talk with her, and if I was you and let her know that when she talks about her past, it makes you feel uncomfortable. And tell her that you love her and in order for this relationship to work, she has to stop comparing you with her past. Doing this will make the relationship lose its touch. She needs to appreciate you more than she does.

I have heard that women never forget their first love but i dont think this statement should be true at the present generation , i think that statement would be good only in past not in present because now i found a women being with many guys so how can we say that women never forget their first love. i think in 100% women you will find 1% who never forget

Mu hubby is my first love and the only one. I don't think I would ever forget all the memories with him and things he has said to me.

we don't forget our first love but it doesn't mean we still love them, it does not mean that we love them more than we love the other guy/s. I, for example, I still think of my first love when there's something that reminds me of him but I don't love him anymore. sometimes I regret meeting him and loving him because he was not worth my love and care. it depends on the woman if they still harbor some feelings for their first love. not all women are the same.