girl courts guy??

In my country (Belgium), people aren't strictly religious, and I've seen lot's of girls courting guys. It's okay with me, as long as it's not vulgar or something. Sometimes the guy is too shy to try something, so then it's a good thing when the girl takes some initiative, or nothing would happen! I myself though, am too shy to flirt a lot, so I still expect the guy to take initiative.

I do not think there is anything wrong for a girl to make the first move unless their culture forbids it. Even in a much maligned religion a girl can actually propose to a man, but not in the same way as modern western culture. This religion has become a laughing stock because many of its adherents have become fanatics instead of fundamentalists (following the true teachings). In my case my spouse made the first move. Somehow she convinced me she was trustworthy and honest. Mine was not the only case. There have been cases of girls offering themselves for marriage to men. To make it short girls courting boys should not be seen as strange. After all there have been many talks about equality. all the best, rosdimy

For me, I admire those girls who are not afraid to tell what they feel to the man they love. I feel that it is just ok for girls to court guys. Not in the way that guys do, like visiting them in their house or asking them out, this is not right. Telling him she likes him will do. For the guys, please don't be harse on girls who do this to you. If you don't like the girl, then be honest, and say it in a nice way. And please never take advantage of it.

I am one of those girls that 'courts the guy', mainly because i go for what i want. if we are both too shy to ask eachother, we might miss out on a great relationship.