Women cheat when something is wrong

Interesting views,you say men are more honest as they dont have a reason they just do it and they dont seek one.I also believe you are saying that there is always a reason even though they might not admit it.I agree with you that it is individual and not gender biased though .Good answer

Well firstly not all women are the same ,I know that . I am glad to hear that you eventually came to your senses .I however noted that you were tempted to cheat when things were wrong which means had it been a woman of lesser will then they would have cheated .But like you said two wrongs dont make a right and I am happy you did not .I hope your relationship prospers .Thanks for responding

True Antique ,none should be cheating and there is no excuse .Thank you for responding

So it is not gender specific ,its individual.Well like someone else says why not break up if you are not compatible with your partner.You could be right that many men cannot have a single relationship and they are always on the hunt .But then like you said this is on a basis of individuality

So you are saying that it is not divided along lines of gender it is just human nature and both sexes are just looking for a reason to cheat .I must admit that this sound like a logical approach but I must admit that the original moot point seems to describe a few women I know.Thsy seem to need justification

Hey, no one is saying that cheating is justified, but for women, we are saying that there is a reason behind, and I know what those reasons are, I have accepted those reasons, and it is so funny how avoidable the situation is, but because the man doesn't see it, she retaliates. I am not saying that it is okay to cheat, but you expression "Hell hath not fury like a woman's wrath", it is true because if we women aren't happy, we can do all kinds of crazy things. Now, I would NEVER cheat on my man, I just couldn't do something like that, but I will tell you this, I know women who do, and it was the man who was completely to blame for her cheating or wanting out of the relationship. My friend was being mistreated by her boyfriend, and for no real reason at all, she had a job, she was taking care of their little girl, and she was doing everything that she should be doing, but he still treated her badly, so she met another man, a man who treated her the way she wanted to be treat, and now, she left the father of her child and she is now married to the man that she cheated with. He is treating her like a queen whereas the other man did not.

Cheating is still cheating. Regardless of the case. If your friend found a better man, good for her. But to justify that a woman ONLY cheats when the relationship is in trouble and pushing the blame on the man is just not... erm... justified. Not all cheating cases are like that. I have seen my fair shares of cheating spouses among friends. And many cases of women cheating are no fault of the man. Like I said, every case is unique. And your friend's no exception either. So, don't go around brandishing every man as the one to blame for a woman cheating on their relationship. Agree?

Good answer I agree with you ,its an individual thing and not gender biased .Some people are commited to their relationship and will not cheat no matter what .I like the way you do your thing ,if you want to be with someone else then do that but dont juggle two persons.Thank you for your answer.

Yeah, a thrid party is never the right person to say who is wrong and who is right. Unless he or she knows the story of both the man and the wife, there is no way to justify any cheating instances. It is just sad that people have to give a generalization like that. There can never be a generalization. Cos there are so many cases that just do not fit into any categories. And when anyone tries to paint the picture of cheating with a broad, general brush, it is not fair to many who are not caught in the same situation as the painted picture.

I find this all nonsense! Anyone can cheat. It is a choice that is made by the person, regardless of whether it is a man or a woman in the relationship. Some blame their cheating on their partners for not spending enpugh time with them. Some blame it on their need to have more intimate relationship with another person and the spouse is not there to fill their void. To me, this is all hog wash! Look at the situation and decide on each individual case. No reasons, no matter how good it is, justifies cheating. Mine mine, this is how people view relationships these days? That men cheat for the sake of it and women do it cos there is a reason. And when women DO cheat, it is justified? Hog wash! Hum bug! You people seriously need to review your values and your views on getting into a relationship!

I did not justify cheating and you are right when you say each individual case is different. The statement I made was a generalization in order to answer the question. Of course if there are problems in a relationship turning outwards to a third person is not the right way to deal with them.

I agree it is not gender biased.Each uses its own reasons for cheating and mostky these ar just excuses to justify their selfish actions.There are men who are faithful and womenwho are also faithful and like you sau noth are equally tempted .Thank you for your answer .

Like I said not all women are cehaters but what my friend is saying is that women normally have an excuse (if we may call it that ) so to speak while men just do it on a random level.I hope it nver comes to a point when you are tempted to cheat and I also hope he never cheats on you .Thank you for responding

Thanks for the vote of confidence ,yes there are good men and good women too.I dont believe it describes all women and all men ,I am just trying to get a feed back as to how many people think that have experience to support this statement .And your advice to seek a counselor is sound and more mature than getting back via cheating .I never looked at it from the perepctive of low self esteem.

Also there are many people who sabotage themselves too. They don't think they deserve happiness and go out and mess things up on purpose. This happens with men AND women.