Do you hate to lose a friendship?

I lost a good friend about 20 years ago. Our friendship was special and was still lasting even though we moved away from each other. She and her hubby called in to visit one day and we were having a wonderful catch up when I said something about talking to her hubby on the phone. I had rung to talk to her and she wasn't there so her hubby and I caught up for a little while. Neither of us had mentioned the call to her because it was not important but she got very upset saying we had gone behind her back to undermine her. She was having some problems which is probably why neither of us mentioned it and as we expected she went off the deep end, she walked out, sat in the car. Her hubby apologised and joined her and they left. I haven't seen or spoken to her since. It was all over so quickly and I phoned her but she wouldn't speak to me. I wrote to her but I didn't hear back. I still think about her and miss her to this day.

I have never had a friend just stop being friends. What happens with me is that we just drift apart.

I hate the not knowing why, you are left wondering what did you do wrong, what did you say wrong, what happened? It's a horrible feeling, especially if you can never confront that person again and find out the real reason why, you speculate you start thinking the worst and you self blame, you get yourself into such a state and it can actually tear you apart! It happened to me, you just lose the future by wanting to go back to the past to replay it all again and find out just what went wrong. Now I have learnt things happen for a reason, we have to accept it and move on. I have wasted too much of my life looking back on what could have been and said, and done, and how and why and it goes on. Que Cera Cera!

Good friends I hate losing. Those that come and go, or on the fringes of my social circle and don't value my friendship/time as much I don't mind letting go. I've never had to tell anyone yet to leave me alone though. Usually, it's the result of moving, or people just get too busy. With the latter reason, however, I don't really find it a good excuse, but people have their priorities, I guess.

yeah :( its a sad sad sit rep i hope no oen goes thru it ever happy lotting and have a nice day

of course...but sometimes if that friends of me not really worth to be my friend i don't feel sorry to lose her/ him...i'm a loyal friend so i guess my friends should be also loyal to me if not, i don't want him/ her to be my friend...

I hate it when a friendship ends for whatever reason. I know sometimes friendships just end and fade for no reason other than the two people just growing apart and drifting apart. But it's still hard.