Someone please gave me advice
By scarlet84
@scarlet84 (64)
Indonesia
February 16, 2009 1:27pm CST
I fell all people that from my place again me,their always looking at me with suspicios,hate,underestimed me.I really don't know what that i do wrong with them?
Sometime i just want to go to other country,vanished from this world.im very tired.
Please give me advice what should i have to do know so i can be nore strong person?
thanks....
3 responses
@Pitgull (1522)
• United States
16 Feb 09
Scarlet,
If you dont mind, I'd be curious to know where you live. Is it your neighbors? The community, your friends? I am sorry you are experiencing this...but before you make changes to who you are, you should be sure that it is not because there is something wrong with other people....
You might not need to be stronger....maybe you are in a bad environment...
I'd love to help....but your answers will help me suggest what I know works
@scarlet84 (64)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 09
i live at Jakarta,i can say maybe because the community.i also confused but thanks for ur advice at least my heart feel relieved after read all your comment.
@KaniaHara2010 (250)
• United States
16 Feb 09
Is it just a few people or is it a lot of people? If it's few, then THEY'RE the ones with the problem, not you. If it's many, then it's not just THEM. For something like this, it's best to seek some sort of counseling to figure out what's wrong. Find a therapist that works for you. They can diagnose you and treat you from there. They can also help in terms of how to deal with other people.
If you can, try to get DBT therapy, if necessary. It's for Borderline Personality Disorder, but it's proven to be helpful for all kinds of people.
@jojoba (40)
• Lithuania
16 Feb 09
Firstly, you have to look for the reasons of such their behaviour.. May be there is smth you are doing wrong. It might be they feel YOU don't like them, that is why they look at you that way.
It might be also you read their look incorrectly. Imagine a stranger staring at you - how would you feel? Most likely he likes you or don't like you? It depenmds on your selfconfidence.
I don't know the situation, that's why it is difficult to advice something. But moving to another place is a really serious decision. So you must think about it carefully. It might help only then, when others treat you unrespectably and it is not your fault.