how can become confindent ?

February 16, 2009 10:22pm CST
I know confindence is very important ,but how can get more confindence .I resign from work last year because i found it is not suitable for me .I want to find a job i like but it seems impossible right now .As the economy depression ,it is more difficult to have a job .The longer it is ,the less comfindent i am .I become doutlted myself that I am not qualified to get a job .I can not meet the requirment but how i can learn more .
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• United States
17 Feb 09
Instead of focusing on what you don't know, focus on what you do know. Remind yourself that you would be a great asset to any company- no matter what anyone else says. Peole bring you down on purpose. Just listen to yourself saying how great you are and your confidence goes up almost instantly. :]
19 Feb 09
I rapport with your suggestion .when I am in the job interview ,I will do as you told .After the world econemy depression ,having a job is more difficult .The competion become fever,so I have to be stonger .Thanks for you,mylotting ,may the best .
• United States
17 Feb 09
Confidence building can come in a few ways. An effective method is to create affirmations about yourself. You can write them down on a notecard. These may be things such as "I'm a wonderful employee", "Employers will hire me", etc. Keep one posted on the bathroom mirror where you will see it daily, and then say each affirmation three times. Do this every time you see them in the mirror. Namaste-Anora
17 Feb 09
It is a good method to remind myself .I will do as you told me .Thank you for your suggestion !I will have more confindence for your support! thanks sincerely !
• United States
17 Feb 09
Recognize your insecurities,Remember that no one is perfect,Identify your successes