What would you do if you feel like nothing mattered anymore?

United States
February 16, 2009 11:11pm CST
First thing is I lost my job, because of not enough business. Then I had a relationship of 7 years dump me, then my car broke down, now I live with my girl friend and her husband and that I don't feel conferable with so what is there?
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Feb 09
Thats too bad. But you can't give up. Look for a new job. That will help alot. And will let you get out of living with your friend. I know getting a job is hard right now, I myself am looking for a full time job too. My husband is divorcing me after 5 years of marriage, so I kind of feel you about the relationship thing, all I can say for that is give yourself some time. Its all not as bad as it seems. Some other great person will see how great you are and you will find a better relationship. Good luck to you and I hope things get better.
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• United States
17 Feb 09
I am so glad to be able to talk to you all because all of this has been consuming me and that what you said was so very sweet thank you.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Feb 09
Feel free to PM me if you need to chat. Its hard to go through so many bad things happening at once. But it is good that you have a friend that is willing to help you by letting you stay with her, that says alot.
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
oh my gosh! i'm sorry to hear that...it is something very difficult to happen in one's individual, losing your work, relationship lose, care broke down, and the worst thing for me is this...is this true that you are loving now with your girlfriend with a husband..why can't you find another single girl out there without having a husband...this is just trial you could still move on tamron123..all the things that was lost will be back to you as soon as possible..just keep the faith strong in God.
• United States
17 Feb 09
Your so sweet no my girl friend wanted me to leave my old man because he was abusive. But I just dont feel right being here with no job
@shamsta19 (3224)
• United States
17 Feb 09
I have found myself in much of the same as of late. The important thing is to not give up. As hard as it seems sometimes it is the truth. I lost my studio, my home, my girlfriend of a year and a half. My brother went to prison. I found myself at the lowest point I had ever been in in recent years and it has taken a lot of strength on my part to hold it together. Thankfully I have family to help me a little but the only way to feel better is get back to where we were. I don't know what it is you might need but I know it is money for me. I would feel much better if my finances were straight. A lot of us are going through the same thing right now though. You are not alone. I hope things get better for you and for us all soon. Until then set small goals for yourself and get them accomplished first. The little things lead to bigger ones in the future. Also try something different, something you would not have done normally. You may find some levity right around the corner if you look.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
Is it all negative? Anything positive in your life? How's your health? How is your relationship with God? Are there still things you enjoy doing? Are there still things you would like to do in the future? Do you still enjoy eating? Do you still have some good friends? Do you still enjoy a good night's sleep? Do you enjoy the sunrise or sundown? Do you still find the stars or the moon beautiful? Do you enjoy listening to music? Do you enjoy reading? If it's all negative, I would recommend going to a doctor as you might have a chemical inbalance. We all experience tough times, but a someone said, "tough times don't last but tough people do." So, work hard at finding another job. Walk or take the bus, ride a bicycle if the weather permits. You will have other relationships and maybe the next one will appreciate you. The living arrangements you have now are temporary, so appreciate your friend's kindness. Look at every negative thing, not as a stumbling block but as a stepping stone to something better.
@ktosea (2026)
• China
17 Feb 09
Dear god,bad things happened to you at the same time,that's too unfortunately.but if you look the situation positively,you will find the sky is still blue and bright,this world will not abandon you,you lost the current job and there will be other opens for you,it's lucky for you to lose you girlfriend if she is not the fateful of yours,you will start a brand new life.everything will be ok,my friend.the tough time will pass and you know,tomorrow is another day
@ktosea (2026)
• China
17 Feb 09
you need to find a new job first then everthing will restore to a normal state,good luck to you