HURT survey...have you been through this?...
By bestie
@bestie (3272)
Philippines
February 17, 2009 1:59am CST
1)Would you spend the rest of your life with your current bf/gf?
2)Would you kiss again the last person you kissed?
3)Are you crushing on someone?
4)Have you ever liked/loved someone so much it hurt?
6)Are you happier single or in a relationship?
7)Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it?
8)Have you ever had your heart broken?
9)Have you ever broken someone's heart?
10)Talk to any of your exes?
11)If you could go back in time and change 1 thing, would you?
12)Think of someone, feel the same?
13)Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
14)Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
15)Do you want to get married?
16)Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
17)Have you told anyone you'd marry them?
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11 responses
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
17 Feb 09
Wah... Bestie, you have been MIA for quite a while!
How have you been?
Well, to answer all your questions:
1) Yes. In fact, I married her and am happy I did!
2) Yep. And that person is no one other than my wife!
3) Yep. My wife. And I still have a crush on her. What I like about my crush? I can hug her anytime I want!
4) Hmm... when you say hurt, what do you mean? I love my wife. But never felt any hurt loving her.
5) I thik your numbering skipped.
6) Happier in a relationship. She is the very reason I am a better man. And I am grateful for that.
7) Nope. IT is the truth everytime I said it. No point saying something that intimate and not mean it.
8) Nope. My wife is my first love.
9) Nope. Same as before. My wife is my first love.
10) Nope. Like I said, my wife is my first love.
11) Yes. I would go back to plan my finances earlier so that I'd be a richer man today!
12) What do you mean think of someone, feel the same?
13) Yes. I do believe I am a good boyfriend. Otherwise, my wife wouldn't say yes when I proposed.
14) Yes.
15) Yes. And I already did.
16) Nope. My wife is my first love.
17) Yep. And she said the same to me too!
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
19 Feb 09
Nope. None.
My wife is my first girlfriend. The first person I ever approached to be my girlfriend. And my first love.
I know. I know. I am serious about my relationships. So I never really gone up to approach anyone unless I am serious about wanting a relationship with her.
And that person happens to be my wife.
@mamabeezy (172)
• United States
17 Feb 09
1. i'm not currently dating anyone.
2. yep.
3. yeah.
4. mhm.
5. -
6. it depends... most of my relationships have been abusive.
7. yeah.
8. yep.
9. yea.
10. none.
11. yes, i believe i would....
12. what?
13. yea.
14. yeah, but not a third. i made that mistake..
15. eventually.... maybe....
16. yeah haha.
17. yep. never happened.
@themindmodel (17)
• Nigeria
18 Feb 09
1. Yes. 2. No. 3. No. 4. Yes. 5. There is no question attached. 6. Happier all the same but better in this relationship. 7. Never. 8. Never. 9. Never. 10. Yes. 11.No. 12. Yes. 13. Sure. 14. Yes. 15. Yes. 16. Nope. 17. Yes
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
25 Feb 09
I have been through a lot of this, lol.
1. I would have spent the rest of my life with him.....if he hadn't decided a month ago he didn't want that
2. yes, I would kiss him again, if the circumstances were different
3. No, crushing...a little high schoolish for me
4. yes, I have loved someone so much it hurt
5. I have been happy either way
6. No, If I tell someone I love them, I mean it
7. yes, I have had a broken heart, more than once
8. Probably
9. Yes, I stay in touch with 2 of my exes
10. No, everything that has happened has been for a reason, and a stepping stone to the next phase in my life
11. not sure what you mean by number 12
12. I was a great girlfriend for 4 years, too bad he didn't see it
13. Sometimes, it just depends on the circumstances and if they deserve to be given a second chance
14. Not really, been married 3 times
15. no
16. yep, like I said, been married 3times
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
19 Feb 09
1)Would you spend the rest of your life with your current bf/gf?
I'm not currently in a relationship
2)Would you kiss again the last person you kissed?
Yes
3)Are you crushing on someone?
No
4)Have you ever liked/loved someone so much it hurt?
Not really
6)Are you happier single or in a relationship?
I think I'm happier single
7)Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it?
No
8)Have you ever had your heart broken?
Of course
9)Have you ever broken someone's heart?
Yes, but not intentionally
10)Talk to any of your exes?
Yes, I still keep in touch with a few of them
11)If you could go back in time and change 1 thing, would you?
Yes
12)Think of someone, feel the same?
I guess
13)Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
I think so, I try to be
14)Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
It depends on what they did wrong
15)Do you want to get married?
Not sure at the moment
16)Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
Yes
17)Have you told anyone you'd marry them?
No
@snilamupurco_julie (253)
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
hehehe BIG survey...
1. YES I hope so ;)
2. YES kissing him is really tempting and so sweet ;P
3. Crushing? I love Papa Piolo Ever
4. YES but it won't work after all duh!
5. I noticed you don't have number five lol :)
6. Much happier that I'm FINALLY In a Relationship Yahoo :)
7. Kindda confused during that time :(
8. YES very much
9. I hope not. He seems to be happy after all I guess :(
10. YES but annoying :/
11. Well, I enrolled at the university for my masteral but unfortunately, my employer gave me a big offer that I have no time for my masteral units.
12. I always think on how to make more MONEY lol :P
13. YES I guess hehehe they said it :D
14. YES if he deserves it :)
15. But of course YES :D
16. Nope no way
17. I can't remember :(
@sameroad (3179)
• United States
18 Feb 09
1)Would you spend the rest of your life with your current bf/gf?
I don't currently have a girlfriend. So i can't say that i would lol
2)Would you kiss again the last person you kissed?
I would and I am going too.
3)Are you crushing on someone?
I think it's more then a crush but they know about it and feel the same way, i think, hope.
4)Have you ever liked/loved someone so much it hurt?
Yes, I used to love someone so much that it hurt but I've gotten over that now. I still love them but not in the way i used too so it doesn't hurt me anymore.
6)Are you happier single or in a relationship?
I'm not really sure... I like being single because i'm free but I want to always have that one special someone that you can't have without a relationship.
7)Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it?
No. I never told someone i loved them and didn't mean it... in less i was drunk and it was at a bar to a stranger but then again... at the moment i said it i'm sure i meant it lol just maybe not like love love.
8)Have you ever had your heart broken?
yeah, i've had it broken a couple of times.
9)Have you ever broken someone's heart?
I don't know... i might of a little...
10)Talk to any of your exes?
yeah, i guess if you want to call them that i still talk to a few of them.
11)If you could go back in time and change 1 thing, would you?
yeah, I would... I would have to think hard about it though so i could work out all the details lol but there is something i would change.
12)Think of someone, feel the same?
I don't get this question? lol feel the same about what?
13)Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
I don't know... I think I do. i mean, i think i could make a good one lol
14)Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
I think it depends on what it is they did... I don't really know.
15)Do you want to get married?
I'm not sure... i used to think maybe but i don't know anymore. it doesn't matter to me as long as i have someone. it's not like i need to get married.
16)Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
lol... i guess you could say. that i do/have liked someone else girlfriend but it's not a friend of mine.
17)Have you told anyone you'd marry them?
yeah, i have... when i was a little kid i told someone lol and me and my one friend say it to one another all the time that if we aren't married by a certain age were gonna marry each other. lol
@littleone3 (2063)
•
17 Feb 09
1)Would you spend the rest of your life with your current bf/gf? Yes I would.
2)Would you kiss again the last person you kissed? Yes defiantly.
3)Are you crushing on someone? No nobody
4)Have you ever liked/loved someone so much it hurt? Yes I have.
6)Are you happier single or in a relationship? Happy both ways but am very happy in my current relationship.
7)Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it? No I always mean it when I say it.
8)Have you ever had your heart broken? Yes
9)Have you ever broken someone's heart? Probably.
10)Talk to any of your exes? Yes one of them is my best male friend.
11)If you could go back in time and change 1 thing, would you? No would not change one thing.
12)Think of someone, feel the same? Yes
13)Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend? Yes that is what I have been told.
14)Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? Depends on what they have done.
15)Do you want to get married? Yes I do.
16)Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend? No
17)Have you told anyone you'd marry them? Yes twice, been married once and plan to get married again in the future.
@shamsta19 (3224)
• United States
17 Feb 09
1)Would you spend the rest of your life with your current bf/gf? I am single now and this would not apply.
2)Would you kiss again the last person you kissed? Hmm. We broke up on pretty bad terms, I miss her a lot but I am getting to the point where I am moving on so no I wouldn't kiss her.
3)Are you crushing on someone? Right now no
4)Have you ever liked/loved someone so much it hurt? Yes and as I said we broke up. For more on that story you'd have to read my older posts.
6)Are you happier single or in a relationship? Single
7)Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it? In high school maybe but we were all young and dumb.
8)Have you ever had your heart broken? Oh yeah
9)Have you ever broken someone's heart? Not on purpose but I think I may have once.
10)Talk to any of your exes? Yes. Except for the last one we are all cool.
11)If you could go back in time and change 1 thing, would you? Only my finances, other than that no.
12)Think of someone, feel the same? Yes
13)Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend? Most definitely
14)Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? In most cases yes but there are some things that cannot be forgiven
15)Do you want to get married? One day, if I find the right woman
16)Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend? Lusted maybe but I never acted on it.
17)Have you told anyone you'd marry them? Yes, we still broke up.
I couldn't resist had to answer these. Don't see how this is really a hurt survey but I have been hurt in a relationship before and I can relate to that.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
1)Would you spend the rest of your life with your current bf/gf?
I would love to
2)Would you kiss again the last person you kissed?
Yes
3)Are you crushing on someone?
no
4)Have you ever liked/loved someone so much it hurt?
Yes it happened once
6)Are you happier single or in a relationship?
Both cause it differs on the level of happiness
7)Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it?
Yes, during my younger years
8)Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes
9)Have you ever broken someone's heart?
Not yet
10)Talk to any of your exes?
yes sometimes since they are still my friends
11)If you could go back in time and change 1 thing, would you?
No, I believe that everything happens for a purpose and I know that it makes me even better person
12)Think of someone, feel the same?
not anymore
13)Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
I wish
14)Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
Yes of course
15)Do you want to get married?
Of course
16)Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
not my personality
17)Have you told anyone you'd marry them?
no
@reichiru (748)
• Canada
18 Feb 09
Interesting survey, I'll take it
1) Would you spend the rest of your life with your current bf/gf?
Most definitely, if I could. You never know what will happen though, but if nothing of consequence happens then yes.
2) Would you kiss again the last person you kissed?
YES (my boyfriend)
3) Are you crushing on someone?
Umm... my boyfriend?
4) Have you ever liked/loved someone so much it hurt?
Yes, in both a good and a bad way.
5) No number 5!
6) Are you happier single or in a relationship?
At the moment, I'm happier in a relationship, but there's always perks to being single as well.
7) Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it?
Nope, I'm an introverted person, wouldn't tell anyone that even as a joke.
8) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Not yet, and I hope not to.
9) Have you ever broken someone's heart?
Sadly yes I believe I have, but I don't know for certain. And it's not in a bad way, I only liked them as a friend, and started dating my current boyfriend, but I suspect that he likes me.
10) Talk to any of your exes?
Nope, I haven't heard from him in a long time.
11) If you could go back in time and change one thing, would you?
There are lots of things I would like to change, but nothing specifically, so I wouldn't change anything in my life. There's no point, seeing as how I'm pretty happy with it right now.
12) Think of someone, feel the same?
Not quite sure what you mean by this.
13) Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
Yes I think I'm a good girlfriend (my boyfriend definitely thinks so, at any rate).
14) Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
Yes I strongly believe in that.
15) Do you want to get married?
Most definitely, and have kids too.
16) Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
Not anyone close to me, no.
17) Have you told anyone you'd marry them?
Yes actually, my boyfriend and I talk about our future a lot, so marriage has come up quite often.
Nice survey!