Do you easily forgive?
By cheekaboo
@cheekaboo (28)
Philippines
5 responses
@Patrika952 (156)
• United States
17 Feb 09
Im a pretty independent person, so I dont always make friends that easily. But, once I do decide that you are my friend I am extremely loyal and it takes a pretty big think to disrupt that. Once someone has broken that trust however, it would take a really long time to build back a relationship. So until someone REALLY screws up, yeah Im a pretty forgiving person. I find it hard to hold a grudge over petty things. Life really is too short to be worried about little disagreements.
@cheekaboo (28)
• Philippines
18 Feb 09
I agree with you.. When one becomes my friend, you can count on me embracing the meaning of being a real friend and true enough, once trust is broken, its really hard to get things back the way they used to be even if both wants the same thing..
@bubbletush (1332)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
i don't forgive easily and i make it a point that whoever wrongs me suffers the consequences of his actions. i guess once i am satisfied that whoever wronged me had suffered enough and learned his lesson then it would just be the time that i "might" move on. but of course there are petty things that are worth ignoring.
@prettypinkbug (437)
• United States
18 Feb 09
I am the type of person that holds grudges. I don't forgive that easily. It's not because I don't want to though. Sometimes I truly want to forgive, and I may say to that person that I have forgiven them. But, deep down I really haven't. I know it's hard.
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
18 Feb 09
To forgive is the easy part to forget isn't so easy. I think that I'm forgive easier than the others that I hand around with... LOL!!! But that doesn't mean that I forgive easy.
@girlie_techie12 (48)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
it's normal , I guess.
we should forgive and LEARN to forget even if it's hard.
think of this, it's like a scar, you tried your best just to forget what had happened but you can't because it leave something behind.
and also, from that scar, you learned something