The ultimate Cat lover!

I have a beautiful white fluffy female cat. She is mad i think. She does all sorts of crazy things. As for your ex-husband, he sounds just like mine. Don't believe anything he said to you, not even for a minute. Their are are very few good men out their. I found one. I thought i would have trust issues, but not with him, i know he will never cheat on me. You see women cheat too. His ex-wife did. I have 5 small dogs and i love them to bits. He loves them too. You can still find the right man for you. One who will love cats as much as you. Yes, cats are very loyal and in alot of cases are so much better than a cheating male.

I love cats as well, I have two. Yeah, a cat can be a better companion than some men. In my case my husband is a cat lover too, he would like to have more than two. Cats can be so cute and entertaining, I know one of mine is, he thinks he is a person and has the greatest personality.

I have both kitties and a husband, and I'll admit that the kitties are easier to live around. Yes, they make messes sometimes, but they are always glad to see me. Dooey is a lover who wants to be cuddled and petted. He also scratches my back for me and loves to try and groom me. Quincy is so smart that he can figure out how to do anything. We just had to put our Sebastian to sleep. We'd had him 16 years, and he was a sweetheart. There's a real hole in our family where he belongs.

Yes you can always rely on your cat to love you and be loyal, don't listen to your ex husband anyway he only said it to hurt you, one day you might meet someone who loves you and your cats.

absolutely here's me in bed with my many lovers....

To bad Exs can't just leave, they have to say something like that for you to carry around the rest of your life. Forget it, If only he knew how perfect the love of your life is.

I guess all ex husband's are alike. My husband just filed for divorce. He told me I was fat and lazy cause I couldn't get a job in 4 weeks. Please. I have two lovely cats that he told me once we should just get rid of cause we wanted to travel. Said we could just get some more when we got back. Should have known then. And he is the one who wanted to get them in the first place! I love my cats and he will not be getting them in the divorce to say the least. They are my constant companions and they are there for me when I get home. I can't imagine life without them. Ashley, my avatar, is a grey, orange, black mix. She is shy around people but she loves to hang out with me. She has some medical problems but it would take surgery to fix them and I don't think she is up to it. She has had since she was born, so I am going to leave her like she is. Carlye is a black and white bundle of joy and mischief. She gets into everything and loves everyone. She is such a comic. She loves to hang out on the couch and watch tv with me. She is also my vocal kitty--likes to talk.

Ohhhh I'm so with you lagirl!! Yes I do agree! Especially when the man is as bad as your ex that he just had to down you the way he did!! Any ole cat is better than that type of man any day of the week!! I hope you know he said that out of pure meanness. He just wanted to cut you in half and make himself feel better by doing so. You'll find a man for you some day when the time is right, trust me on that! As for cats, I have 10 of them right now and I'm loving every minute of it!! I also have 3 dogs too.... kind of a minature farm here.... lol However, I didn't plan for it, it just happened. I've taken in a couple of strays and rescued one from another mylotter and got the rest from various places and now I have 10 of 'em but I love it!! About spending thousands of dollars, we had two cocker spaniels and the female was so sickly with skin, ear and eye infections as well as mild seizures constantly. It was so bad that all I had to do is call the vet and tell him what I smell or see and right away he'd order me some medication without seeing her! It was a great relationship! I always said if I could get her to 10 years old, I'd be happy and ok with putting her down IF needed, if only I could get her to 10 years old. Well, she lived until she was 13 years old before we had to put her to sleep. It was late at night when she had a massive seizure and my friend who was visiting at the time rushed her to the vet and had her put down. We cried all the way home and most of the next day. They put her body in a cardboard shaped casket so I didn't have to build a box (like I'd know how!) and my neighbor buried her because hubby was still in another state in the army. But she'll never be forgotten just like her brother, he'll never be forgotten either. He lived till he was 12 and we had to put him to sleep too because he had cancer. He had problems too like my female but not nearly as bad so I know how it is to spend thousands of dollars on a pet or two.

I'm a cat person. I love all animals, but cats will always hold a special place in my heart. My whole family are cat people. If teaching my son or daughter to love a cat or feel the special joy that a cat can give a person then I've just condmended my son to being a grumpy old man and my daughter to spinsterhood.....NOT! I wouldn't have chosen my husband if he didn't love animals. He had two dogs and a cat when I met him. I didn't care how great a cook he was or how excellant a musician he was, he loved animals and that was it for me. I will say that living with more cats than you can love isn't being fair to the cat or cats. Believe me, I've thought about owning more than the two cats that I have had at any given time, but that would be just wrong. Ignore what your ex says. He's just jealous because he knows that you have the capacity to love anything but him and he wishes that he was brave enough to love somethng as gentle as a cat. DCMerkle

Well, I managed to find a man who is absolutely wonderful anyway, but I admit a lot of men can cause a woman great pain and grief. I do agree that cats are better than people in general, all people. I have been hurt by almost everyone in my life, family and so-called friends alike. Therefore, I have an extremely low trust level. I am not just a cat lover, but an animal lover in general. I love them all, even the ones people hate. I love large spiders and scorpions. I'm not so big on the small ones since I'm visually impaired and can't really see/feel what they are doing. However, if I could help it I would try not to kill even the deadly ones. They are here for a reason and they keep other smaller animals like flies and mosquitos down to a minimum. If we had no spiders, the fly and mosquito and other insect populations would skyrocket! I also absolutely love snakes and lizards and things like that, another thing a lot of people dislike, especially women. I love them all! I do believe that animals are much more genuine than people. Some of them may be able to physically hurt you, though even those don't do it on purpose. It's almost always self defense when they feel threatened. However, animals are unable to emotionally hurt you, except when you lose them, but again that's out of their control and a natural part of life, one which humans must endure anyway. Animals don't lie or cheat or steal...well except maybe the occasional raccoon or something, lmao. But you know what I mean I am sure.

I too am a cat lover, and once thought like you. I even have a cute picture that says "One can never have too many cats." However, I learned that isn't the case. I DID have too many cats and it became overwhelming. I am also a dog lover. A short time back I had 8 housecats, 4 dogs and about a dozen stray cats outside that I fed daily. It reached the point where I was doing without so that the animals could have what they needed. So silly. My health declined and I was put on oxygen because my asthma became so severe. And here I sat with all this fur. I had to make some tough decisions. I now have 4 housecats, and its still too many. But, I'll deal with that for now. I only have 2 little dogs now also. I AM still feeding the strays, but only because animal control here refuses to help me with the problem. So love your cats, but remember to not get carried away by it.

Absolutely! I adore cats and I have two. One I have had since he was a kitten; he is 13 years old now. I struggled with fertility issues and it took my husband and me almost six years of gruelling treatments for us to finally have a baby. It was an extremely stressful and painful time and I owe coming out the other side to my beloved cat. His name is Friday and he used to go everywhere with me just like a dog! He was, and still is my "baby". The other cat I have is Rosie. We adopted her when she showed up on our doorstep and we could not find her owners, she sleeps with me every night. I also have a dog and a bird and I love them but my beautiful cats are just so special to me. I agree with you that (don't tell my husband) cats are definitely better than men! They are better listeners for a start! Before I was married I lived with my girlfriend and 2 cats, when we felt fed up with men we used to joke that she and I would end up living in a big house with 25 cats. So don't worry you are not alone!

I love cats. They are such interesting pets and so interesting to watch. I have a kitty (named Lulu, because, she's nuts). I got her when she was just about 6 weeks old from someone who didn't know how to spade their cat. But I love her. She has 6 toes on each paw... she looks like she has mittens on. Also, she can grab her little toys like a human (with the "thumb" thing). It's kinda creepy but really neat. Oh, and she's insane. But I love her! XOXO

hello kindred spirit. i, too, call myself numero uno cat lover. though i love animals in general, i relate to the cat as i feel it is most similar to my personality. independent, self-reliant, quiet (when contented), furtive, graceful and fastidious. and yeah, kinda snooty, too.

My mother and I have four cats, three boys and one girl. We have spent a lot of money on our cats. We love each and every on of them.

go for it. i think u r they way u r for a reason. everything happens for a reason. adopt homeless and unwanted cats and give them a better life. if u can, start ur own no-kill animal shelter and maybe help some get a good home elsewhere in the process. maybe this is ur calling. and who knows, maybe in the process, u will meet a man who is also an animal lover and get married again. maybe ur first husband wasnt the man for u.