No fault, no blame please. My pettest peeve.

And you're not even Catholic! ROFL I used to do that all the time. But I'm getting old now, and the priests and nuns don't scare me anymore. LOL Actually, I think it's more a matter of life experience, waning energy for small stuff, and being more comfortable with ourselves. Great friends who truly care for you help a lot too! Right Mr. Fish? Of course right! ROFL

FYI, I ignored the last sentence because the rest of what I typed wouldn't have made sense otherwise! LOL (Actually I didn't even see it!)

I am very fortunate to have those great friends too Sparky. I'm off to bed now. Night night. XXXX

Huh?! Don't go blaming me Sparky. Nova came up with this one all herself!

Pfftt! We all know how inspirational English Fish are...................LOL

Yeah well, missy, it's your fault that I got hooked to this place in the first place! But it's not the fish's fault that this discussion was born, nope. I came up with it all on my own! Aren't you proud of me, mommy? But seriously folks, I feel the same way, Sparky about people just not getting over things. There is a time to be mad, then a time to forgive or just move on, for sure. And it causes me the same heartache about the wasted energy. Such a shame, yes? (love ya, baby!)

Good mornin Sunshine! Wow, sugar, very well said. "Bulldog action". Boy, talk about to the point! As I said to Lexus above, it's so great to find so many like minds. But I shouldn't be surprised. The majority of people here are thinking, kind human beings and I'm constantly reinforced and delighted by their intelligence and wisdom. Yourself included. I'm so happy to see you here, Sunshine. That's what you're like, you know. Sunshine. Fiona's little face smiling up at me. I love it. And I'm crazy about you. Keep typing, girl. Please.

Well, I am talking from experience..I have a sister who goes into "bull dog" mode pretty often and others in my family. I thank you kindly from my heart about what you wrote. I fills my heart with warmth. And have given me a better outlook on this cold blustery day..OXXOX So if I am the Sunshine then your the rainbow...which uplifts everyone moods and makes everything better so that we can be better.

I guess i am one of those people mtdewgurt74 is talking about hi bab.I get realy mad when someone accuse of something i didnt do. but i also will say i am sorry if i am wrong ,this is where her sister gets it from . love you baby

I love you too :*

And me you, baby girl.

Good to see you too, darling. Are you keeping that man in line? Wait a minute. What's wrong with me? OF COURSE YOU ARE! You wouldn't be you if you weren't!! And if anyone knows you at all, we know you have a very low BS tolerance. I mean, it's not like you pull any punches or anything..............

Hi, Opal!!! Great to see you again too, Miss Opal, just wonderful. I love what you said about how it doesn't make any difference in the "actual realm of things". Verrrry well said, Opal. So let's dismiss all of those whiny babies and just get on with the pleasure of life. And of course, the pleasure of MyLotting!!!! Thanks Opal. Very much.

Humph! Me??? Bratty???? Never!!!!! Ok, fine! I'll admit it! I do have a very bratty side but I try realllll hard to keep it under wraps. Because when it comes out, yikes, everybody duck. And ya know? It's nice to hear that you don't have a pet peeve. You probably do, somewhere in your subconscious, but don't think about it till whatever it is happens, ya know? That something that just makes you cringe when you hear it. Like sexism. Like all the isms. But you're a verrrrry kind heart, Bo darling, and it shows in your responses, all of them. You're also very naughty, and supremely clever, and stupendously talented, but don't let all of this go to your head, missy. Hooboy, I haven't been up but for about a half hour and I'm not, not, not awake yet. My clever function is still asleep I do believe. But I'm so happy to see you here! It's been a long time since I've written a discussion ('cept the last one) and seeing all of you here just warms my lil heart. Hey Bo. I need help changing my avatar. Sparky changed it the last time for me and I've asked her to help me yet again with the same. I'm endlessly hopeless on the computer, I'm afraid. But it's in the works. And won't it be fun!!! So many of us with such similar yet very individual avatars, and all MADE BY YOU!!!!! Can't wait! Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my current avatar and intend to return to it at some point, but I reallllly want your gypsy for a least a while. Shoot. I'm rambling. As usual. On to the next one. Love ya, kiddo. XXXX

You, embarassed? Ha! Suffer, woman!

I wasn't talking about you when I said bratty people. Really, I wasn't.*L* And, shut up! You are the heck out of me! Heehee

THANK you, James! Maybe. But don't blame me if you don't like what I say, mister. I love this discussion. And damn, you guys are just so friggin cool. No sarcasm on that one, case ya didn't notice....And thank you so much for gracing my discussion with your presence, darlin James. Kisses, baby!

Hi there, nova, you really flatter me...but I won't fault you for that. But I will have to pin the blame on you if I can't sleep tonight...LOL. I enjoy writing here and I usually try and gather my thoughts and ideas before composing my response. I am glad you enjoy reading my posts. I also enjoy reading yours too, and have you on my radar so each time you initiate something, I get notified. There are many people who write well on this forum, and I learn a lot just interacting with them, and that includes you. I would never have the chance to experience such interactions across the globe if not for a site like this so I can count myself very blessed to be in the 'cyber-company' of so many wonderful myLot faithfuls. My life is enriched by all these interactions, and I trust yours is too. Take care. ~ Victor

Hi Lexus, my friend. Wow, you have the most lovely way of saying things. And not just lovely but wise too. Everything I've read that you've written is like that. It's a beautiful thing! And you make so many salient points. It's really wonderful to know that so many of us feel like that. Blame is a waste of energy, plain and simple. And yes, I think pride or fear of embarassment plays a large part in the whole concept of blame. Wise words, my dear, very wise words. Thank you so much for coming in to my discussion. I always look forward to seeing you, Lexus. So - till the next time, stay happy, and DO NOT change anything about yourself. You're perfect just the way you are.

Absolutely! My life too is enriched by my interactions here, and yes, I feel very blessed by the friendships I've forged. Most definitely. Thank you, Lexus, so much for everything you've said and for being such a thinking, caring, very human being.

You are too cool, Miss AnnieO! And yes, you would be one of the few who wouldn't blame me for anything and that's just a small part of why I love ya, girl. Thanks for dropping by too, Annie. I love seeing you. Always. XXXX Loves ya too.

Thank you for your wise and kind words. I'll definitely take them into consideration. And welcome to Mylot, Amadali! Here's wishing you many happy hours, laughing and having fun.