if is there real friendship between wen and women

I have more male friends too and my best friends are males. I am not saying that I am a lesbian, rather, I am more comfortable in the company of guys than girls. Regarding your topic, I don't see anything wrong to befriend with your ex boyfriend. Why not? It goes to show that you both had moved on and ready to stay as friends. As per your current boyfriend's remarks, it seemed like he does not want the idea. He is insinuating that he knows more about men than you are. In other words, your ex might have other intentions other than to befriend with you. Perhaps, your boyfriend has "fishy" feelings towards your ex, but sometimes he can be wrong. You know very well your ex and your current bf. It is for you to know what is your ex' intentions are. If your ex has a gf or apparently has moved on, then tell your boyfriend about it. Don't be too suspicious. Show your boyfriend the affirmation that it is pure friendship that is existing with your ex. There is real friendship between men and women. I have many personal proofs to that. Actually, my male friends are even loyal that my female friends. Few of my female friends gave me heart aches and even lose my trust. There is really a big difference having male and female friends.