Are you afraid of being compared to an ex gf/bf?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
February 18, 2009 9:07pm CST
Women don't like to eat at the same restaurants or see the same movies that their guy did with an ex. if he asks me to do, it doesn't mean his trying to turn her into that partner. It just means that he happens to like the activity and now wants to share it with you. But sometimes for me I rather know the places that his ex went to. I get curious, it's like knowing his ex more I think. I just get piss off when she talks about him,but don't wanna be compared of course cause I am different from him. I have my own self. How about you guys do you wanna be compared to his/her ex.? Have a nice day to all of you!
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7 responses
@neha2k94u (406)
• India
19 Feb 09
I dont have any...So, I am not afraid of anything like that...
And I am not comparable(kidding....hehehehehe...)...
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@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
I don't want to of course. But it's really inevitable all you need to do is to prove to her that you have your own personality. Happy posting...
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
19 Feb 09
Hello, my only hang up is being called by "her" name but luckily I haven't nor called him by my ex's name. We have a joke between us when one corrects the other, say pronounciation the one getting corrected says "OK JIMMY". That was what the b/f I had before my b/f now did that to me. He always corrected my pronouniations. He thought that because he was from England he had a better understanding of the English language.I am from the north western part of the United States and most of us don't pronounce the ending "g" like "standin" instead of "standing". It bugged my ex b/f that he made it a point to correct me and it bugged me when he did.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
That happens to us also, I know his ex. speaks well in english, same with her. When she corrects me I feel offended or she might be still having a hung ups with him. I just get upset or sensitive somehow. But I also think that when she corrects me it helps me learn too. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
19 Feb 09
Well, thankfully my husband hasn't compared me to his ex. In fact, he says he's thankful I'm not like her. It doesn't bother me when we speak about her though. I also speak about my ex's from time to time. It doesn't bother him. He generally is in agreement with what I have to say about them. He is sensitive though if something we do brings up a bad memory. My first husband was abusive so if something comes up that brings up a bad memory, my husband is supportive as we work through it. I think that's the healthy thing to do.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
Lucky you! Anyway it happens once in a while when she compares me to his ex. But I just don't wanna be compared to him, and I just don't want her to talk about his ex. it's finish it is me who is around now not his ex. Well I am not perfect but do love her very much. Have a nice day!
@eagle_f15 (1827)
• Malaysia
19 Feb 09
Nope.....I have never felt this before. That's because my husband has never had an ex and neither have I had an ex. We were both the first in each other's life. So I have never had that feeling of being afraid before.
