Changes in a relationship.

@bhawnam (1436)
India
February 19, 2009 2:43am CST
we all expect so much to change in our relationships, but we seldom want to change it ourselves.. what do you say on this??
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@neha2k94u (406)
• India
19 Feb 09
Well I dont think anybody wants to change us...or We want to change them...coz we are liked the way we are... So I want to say be yourself... And lett others be...
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
The statement is actually true. It's difficult to push someone to change as you want him/her to be without you yourself trying to go half way. But it's tough to accept mistakes. This is the main reason why we can't hold on to relationships longer than we want them to be. I am guilty of this one too. I just can't help to be too attached, I just don't know why, perhaps it's my longing for someone and fear that he may find someone better that kills me. But I know this type of attitude could choke someone too. But I'm trying my best not to be too clingy.