my cousin lost her baby

@AXLAERO (426)
Philippines
February 19, 2009 11:32am CST
yesterday,i visit my relatives.then they told me that my cousin who's 5 months pregnant was released from the hospital because she had a miscarriage and lost her baby.i told my auntie that why they didnt informed me so i will visit my cousin in the hospital.my cousin is really sad and she keep on crying.she told me before that im going to be the godmother of her baby.they found out that its a baby boy.i really feel sad for her.this is her first pregnancy.well maybe one of this days,i will visit her in their house if im not busy.i know that she really needs comfort.i hope she can recover soon.
4 responses
@roniroxas (10559)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
is your cousin working? if she does i think it is not good for her to continue working while pregnant. if she is only a stay at home person she needs to make sure she has a regular visits to her obgyne, she also needs to get the cellphone number of her doctor so she can text her incase she feels something that is not normal. if she pukes everytime she needs to make sure she is sitting down while doing this. vomiting a lot my cause the baby to go dwon that sometimes cause miscarriage. well i am not saying that i am an expert but i have a lot of experiences already about pregnancy and i would love to help in any way i can.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
no she is not working.she always stays at home.maybe,this is not yet the time for her to have a baby.i told her to accept what happened and theres still another chance for her to have a baby...
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
That is so sad... to have a miscarriage is like one of the worst thing that could happen to a woman... i hope you can visit her soon... because if she wanted you to be the godmother... then it must mean that you are very close... and that your presence would surely help her cope with the pain...
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
yah were very close.we grew up together.shes like younger sister to me.i hope she will recover sooon.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
19 Feb 09
I am very sorry to hear that your cousin lost her baby at five months pregnancy. I thought miscarriages were more likely in the first three months of pregnancy. I imagine that your cousin is feeling really sad especially as it would have been her first child. I hope the little baby boy will rest in peace. Good luck to your cousin for any future pregnancies. I know it will take time for her to get over this awful event and I hope she will be able to recover.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
its really hard for my cousin.she tried her best to save the baby.she always g for check up because she always have spotting.actually im planning to give her my materity clothes.but shes not going to need it anymore.thanks for the response.
@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
hi friend.. may i know what was the cause of her miscarriage?? thanks~ keep in touch!