What's the right time to love...
By doncruise21
@doncruise21 (394)
Philippines
February 19, 2009 11:01pm CST
Have you ever felt the emptyness of being alone? how it feels when someone you love goes away? Sometimes we tought that the love we have right now is the best thing until in a sigle mistake, its gone. You dont have to blame one another because loving still a part of our choice, If we give all the love, dont expect your partner will return the kind of love you gave..In this life, its a matter of choice. Everything and every decisions we have reflects what we are right now. If you feel you need someone to love, searching for someone to love is not to be rushed because it will end up you crying. If someone doesnt love you anymore, will you still force him or her to love you? Forcing someone to love you or to love you again is a form of selfishess...you wont be happy if you just think for your own good. Letting go is a part of life...just like the friends, classmates, relatives you meet in this world.,,the right time to love is when you learn to accept this facts in life...
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12 responses
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
20 Feb 09
good discussion you have here! your subject is great "what's the right time to love..." & the answer is in your last sentence "...the right time to love is when you learn to accept this facts in life..."
the right time is not about the right age to love. actually everybody can start to love if they have learnt to accept the facts of life, as you mentioned. i think you have described every single thing about love very much in details.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
thanks victorywp..hmmm yeah these are some ways you can assure your self that your ready to love someone. If you love, always remember the risk, responsibilities and the truths of love. true love is not self fish..loving some one is making her happiness your first priority becaus for sure both of you will be happy with that. Also, look for the bigger picture of situations so you can decide well on what to do. Its like watching a chess game that as a viewer, you know and you can easily decide for what's the best move =) but be carefull, you might take the wrong one, but its a part of life, mistakes results to learning and maturity =)
@shalli17here (627)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 09
uhhuh ive had it 5 years ago lol. yes, it was hurts. what kind of single mistake ? if we still can talk about it and find the way out, and if we love each other, then dont let the single mistake destroy our love..
if some1 doesnt love me anymore, i wont force him to love me again, it would be useless..beside i dont want a fake love from him.
i dont know the right time to love, but i only know when we feel that he's the one then dont easy to let him go..fight for our love is the best we can do, but release him if he doesnt love us anymore. a true love wont go away..
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
stanks shalli =)
Im happy with the way you look with this things. True love wont go away, if your destined to each other, whatever you do, you will end up loving the same person..hmm fake love really hurts but its a part of risk when you enguage your self to love. But you have to be strong and move on with your life because we dont deserve that kind of love. We have the right for happiness so sometimes we have to learn to accept and learn to adopt..=) being mature enough will help us to handle this through experience and also the way you teach your self about the realities in life...
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
..you're right.. the hardest part will be choosing the right person to be with.. Its not just anybody else right.. it must be someone who could really fill in the empty space in your life.. there are many people who could be loving you and expect you to love them in return.. however, only one will be chosen.. that is why we need to be very careful in choosing.. there are things to consider that's why it would be good to know first the person before giving our full trust and love to them.. It has to be the person worthy of our love and loyalty..
@srganesh (6340)
• India
20 Feb 09
Yes!Love is unconditional and undemanding.You can't expect the other to love the most as you love.It is quite natural that a love breaks due to silly reasons.We can't help it.But if we are loving one for love sake,then it won't hurt that much.To reach that state,one should have more maturity towards love and life.Well,time will teach us to gain that stage.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
thanks srganesh..=) hmmm yeah..this events in our life makes us as a better person towards maturity.. Being mature enough alow us to handle this kind of situations in life in proper way. Like in love, if we have a mistake, learn how to stand-up and go on with your life..
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
20 Feb 09
Try to look on the positive side of life..Everyone sure ever felt the loneliness of life in their lifetime. l admit l ever felt that way before l married. Now, too busy til not enough time for myself..Always be positive and truthful in yourself and whatever you do. Wish you good luck..
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Whew..its been a long time since I loggd-in at mylot..btw thanks for the comment =). being positive with your life is the best way to live your life to the fullest. Yeah everyone experienced the same thing, loeliness....but as time goes by, everything change..its a matter how you take this loneliness as a motivation factor to help us to be mature with our life...
@meggiehan (77)
• China
20 Feb 09
when i was in college, all my firend were in love, i admire them and felt so lonely, emptyness, i wonder who is i looking for and where he is. but i didn't give up , eventually i find my lover. i don't know what time is right time. i want to say you are ready when love coming.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
hmmm thanks meggiehan =)
Im happy for you because you are able to find the love you want in a way that is unexpected. Sometimes love really emerge that way. Its a matter how strong your relationship and the foundations you make each day together...enjoy love because the happiness that love can bring is un-explainable.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
20 Feb 09
Love must surely come at the right time when both of you have matured, and are capable of making rational judgemnet. Like you correctly observe, you must find the person who is right, that person must really be in love otherwise, love can bring you alot of agony if you rush into it as your own singular duty!
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
20 Feb 09
The right time to love is when our heart tells us to love. Love is an emotion of the heart and so, when the heart tells us to love, we should. However, many of us do not follow the heart. Instead, we follow the rules and regulations of society. The society tells us various things about love, family etc.. and we jump in love according to those dictates and thus it is that there are so many love failures.
@mailtoramesh (815)
• India
20 Feb 09
Love its a beautiful feel when you feel it.I am in love with my partner.Suppose if we have a conflict in any particular matter and if she decide to quit my love, I will not let her go out from my life.I dont think its wrong for being selfish for this matter because its life.I will try to make her to understand my situation and try to convince her.
I f she still not accepting me I will leave then with mind full of sorrows.But I pray to god that it should not happen to anyone.Happy news is that we going to marry next year.
Happy myloting
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
Really?congrats...because yo were able to fight for your love with that person. I'm impressed because your willing to take risk just for the one you love. (which in the end, payed off). I hope that you'll be happy together forever and be a Good husband to her ok..love her with all your heart..never let her cry..
@1rickyme (146)
• India
20 Feb 09
When u have respect towards your partner's and when your partner shows towards u then the relationship is very pleasant, and u will not face any problem but when the ego feelings develop then the problem starts then u may not expect the equal responses from other side and i think that is not the right time to love that.
@itsme_cha (504)
• United States
21 Feb 09
there is no right time to love, it come's at anytime. unless your too young to fall in love. but there's alot of kinds of love. love being in a relationship comes at anytime, it just a matter of right time and right person. it is something you dont really expect to come in your life.
happy mylotting.
@jajohn (31)
• India
20 Feb 09
Do not force someone who does not love you, it is not worth it.
I do believe that there is someone for you to love, so be patient and it will come, it's not all day sad day, be happy with what you have and experienced.
And the right time to love is for someone who knows how to wait, patiently that is.
