What will you do when your lover leave you suddenly?

Well I will go to him and kick him!!!

Well since the person left then you can do nothing but bear with it and move on with what is left with you. Of course that is painful but I guess there is no use to stay in that space since life is not all about that person and you could actually live your life without that person. It's just matter of adjusting you life to a different setting from what you have right now.

Well if she leave me with out telling me the reason why, for sure I'll think about I have done or reason just to leave just like that. Yes it will hurt me more, just like that with out saying good bye. But if she won't see me again or calling me up, well what is the reason for to ask her. I think will be useless. I'll just move on, and heal my broken. I know it will not take for a night, just to forget her. It will take time. Anyway the reason and the truth will come out in the end. Good night!

The lover as you mentioned here, is not worthwhile for us to love....and it is wasteing our time to talk to the person like that here....

If he leaves without her, it might make sense to go for a talk to find out what is the cause and what could be done. If he leaves with a her, it does not seem necessary to try. On the contrary, it might be something to celebrate. After the initial days of a sad heart, you need to gather your thought and body to set out for a new journey, which might be a blessing for you. For a wife, or even worse with a child, things might be more difficult. You will have to value with consideration of the child. There are wonders that wife is making, who manages to draw back the husband to resume a happy family.

if it happens on me, i will ake hime the reason why he leaves me without any words. but if he refuses to give me any answer, i will do not ask him again. being hurted by him, i think we will never become friend instead of lover, i have no such kind of courage. i will say to myself: this guy does not worth me to love and remember .you will find a real lover who will never leave you. maybe i will make a travel to heal my sadness.i believe i will recover soon

Hello Sandy831203! If ever it will happen to me, I would be very sad. What is hard in our relationship is that we are a million miles away from each other. I don't want him to just suddenly leave me and cut off the communication just because he found someone new. I always told him to tell me if ever something happens.

That will be very worse to leave like that without any reasons told.I will surely reach her to tell me the reasons behind and if I was understood wrong,I will explain my sides.It will be really hard to continue relations with a girl leaving just like that.

Hi, It will be shock to me no doubt, bc'z it is an assult on my TRUST(Value-system).But I'll not loose 'control',rather take this as a lesson and will try to analyse what were the 'gaps'-that this situation took place.I'll learn.B'cz i know Time is the best healer,this wound will be healed soon and learning will make me rich in life. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

Oh if he left me with no words or reason for another girl, I would say good luck, she can have him. I would not ask for a reason why as he would not be worth my time. I wouldnt care why he did it, just glad to find out he was like that and get rid of him before it was too late.

hi, if he leave me in that way, i will be crazy at that time. i want to know why, you can leave me totally but tell me why.it's terrible.

if you love this guy ,go and ask for a reason ,and try to be together again . but actually I don,t think this will be a good idea .will this guy mean something to you again as he once betray you ? drop him and find a right one will be my choice.