What is your choice?

Hmmm... that is really a tough question! If I am at that point and at a certain age that I would be alone, I would chose to be with the one who loves me because I do believe that you can also teach yourself to love somebody. The first time borg and I started going out I wasn't really that much fond of him but then he asked me to gave him a chance. I did and look at us now, i am so glad I took the chance because we are both now so in love with each other! =)

this is something that i heard in a movie once... hmmmm... for me... i think i am a person that's kinda afraid to grow up alone. i need people's company, presence or assurance that they will be there for me... i think i might choose the situation that the person loves u but you u have no sense to that person... coz i think it is easier to motivate oneself to love the other than to make someone love u. coz if u make an effort to at least like or learn to love someone... it is an effort you make... and its out of your own freewill... you decided to love the person... on the other hand, if u try someone else to love u... you're making someone to make a decision to love u... and mostly it ends like.. the other person is forced to do it. with the situation at hand... u said that ur on a certain age... i would rather choose... not forced to choose... to learn to like/love somebody... coz if u make an effort to love somebody.. it naturally comes out from the heart.. and it will be easier than thinking you must do it...

Well, when it comes to Marriage, there is NO way that I could have ever married someone unless I truly Loved them. I believe that the only way a marriage can ever truly last is by Gods blessings, Love, and a committment no matter what happens to work things out. If you are marrying someone just for the idea to get married, then you are doing it for the wrong reasons, and you will never be Happy. Even if you feel like you need too, Pray to God asking and believing, and the right one will eventually come along, and you both will know that it is time.

Maybe you have to pick neither..and you gotta believe that one day you will meet someone who really loves you, and you love him. But, for the sake of this discussion--if you want me to pick between those 2, I say pick the one that loves you. He'll treat you well, and you may grow to love him. But if you go in a relationship with someone who doesn't love you they will walk all over you and prob. not treat you as good.

i couldn't see myself being with someone i don't love, that's for sure. and between the options that you provided, i would neither choose one. i think one of the hardest way to live life is to choose being unhappy. and for me choosing either of your options would make my life or his life unhappy...