Do you want children?
By xboxboy
@xboxboy (5576)
9 responses
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
20 Feb 09
Sometime I think about what it would be like to be a mom, and I think id make a pretty good mom, but on the other hand having children is a big responsibility, and its something that shouldn't be considered lightly and I am aware of how difficult it can be to rise children these days especially if your not financially and emotionally ready, so thats why having children is something I'm not ready for right now, and honestly I dont know if or when ill be ready to have kids, but I also know that things dont always happen the way we expect them to, but right now I'm definitely not ready for kids but maybe someday I will be I do love children and it would be nice to have children someday.
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
20 Feb 09
i really don't know...never pushed a woman that far ...so she can fetch a child for me ... :)
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
24 Feb 09
i have one and only litle girl.it was not bad because it was planned properly and done properly
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
26 Feb 09
Hi xboxboy! I do have children. It has been great for me but there is always bad which comes with any good. The good part is the joy they bring me and the times we have laughing together. The things I teach them that they will teach their own and the closeness we share. The bad is the selflessness you have to deal with in order to care for them properly. The things that were once important have to be put on the backburner and there is never enough time in the day to get everything done that needs to be.Sometimes you fell spread very thin trying to keep up with them and the world that never stops turning. I don't bother myself with these things that are "bad" because I have a new sense of selfworth because of them. These sacrifices are nothing compared to the great feelings they give you.
@onedaysoon (651)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I do not have chidren and I do not want children. My "children" all have to have fur. I love animals and they are enough for me. Animals make me happy, whether they are free in the wild or a domestic dog or cat. There are plenty of people who have kids. They wont miss me not having one.
What about you? do you want or have children?
@joniebee (182)
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20 Feb 09
Hi xboxboy,I don't currently have children and unfortunately i would have to say that i would rather not have them.I know it's probably not PC to say so but i don't like children.Maybe it's because i'm to selfish,Who knows,I also don't like how they can be very jealous,Greedy,Spoilt etc etc,I know they have these bad traits due to the fact that their young and haven't yet learn't how to behave in an adult world,But none the less they are this way,And i don't like to be around them.There is also the fact that i wouldn't want to bring a child into the world today,I really do believe that the world is in a bad way,Without trying to sound all dramatic,I don't see a good future for the younger generation's of the world,At least i was completely truthful,Even if it didn't make nice soppy reading,Eh.
@treichle8581 (6)
• United States
27 Feb 09
I have a son who is just about to turn 1 in March. While having a child can be trying and stressful at times, it is still the best decision my husband and I ever made. No matter how my day is going, all I have to do is look at my sweet baby and I get the biggest smile on my face. He is the greatest accomplishment of my life and I'm looking forward to having a second child in the future.