Men are more stronger than women....
By mailtoramesh
@mailtoramesh (815)
India
February 21, 2009 12:04pm CST
This is a debate I had in my college yesterday and I spoke the below:
I do agree with it because men have higher capacity to manage their work as well as their home.They are very good in decision making.Even in my family my father takes quick and correct decisions in right time than my mom.
Men can withstand troubles at hard times than women..
Is it true what I spoke on that day in my college?
Happy myloting
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19 responses
@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
I think physically men are stronger , but to think about being tempted or so, both genders are just the same. If you think that women think weaker and men are stronger, think again my friend, you cannot just say this based on what you experienced on your family.
It is good to know that your dad has a quick decision, but don't you think that in a family, it takes two to decide, because if your mother cannot, there is something wrong with the word equality here. A father and a mother should agree on one thing before they decide, not just one side of the coin my friend.
If you will think that men will be stronger than women, you would be doing the same thing to your wife and give her not the equal opportunity for her. You will treat her not equally with you if this will be your standard and it will be unfair.
@Galena (9110)
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22 Feb 09
actually, I think you're wrong.
it's commonly known that women are usually better than men at multi-tasking, meaning they can manage multiple tasks at home or in the workplace more efficiently than men usually do.
also, I do believe that women are emotionally stronger and more stable. often when a family is going through hard times it is the woman who is the rock of the family, who everyone will turn to, and she will keep going with the day to day tasks, supporting everyone else, while feeling the same emotions herself.
so actually, I believe the opposite to you.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
22 Feb 09
I disagree. I don't think you can generalize this much: there will be individuals who will be better at decision making than others, but this is a result of their own thought processes, not necessarily their gender.
And considering that women have to live through the same hard times as men, I cannot see that this is a point. If women couldn't withstand troubles, wouldn't the species die out?
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
22 Feb 09
i have to disagree. my wife is more stronger then i am when dealing with things. because i get very frusted easy with people or bills. i think it may be down the middle and the person.
my wife is the real back bone in our family. specaily when it comes to dealing with the kids.
but i think all women should learn to be strong and indepenace with or without a man. i know so many women that are like this. and i can say my wife and my daughter are pretty strong. we taught my daughter to be indpence and strong without a man, she's 24 now. i feel sorry for the man who tries to control her
@Yori88 (1465)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
I do not agree that men are stronger than women. This is a general statement that needs a more specific elaboration of the topic. Let us put this sentence into a clearer stand and that is to specify on which areas men are considered to be stronger than women. First if in terms of works that men can do, most jobs now that were before employs men alone are now accepting women. There are few jobs that require only men. I think pilot are no longer jobs for men alone but a woman can also be a pilot. When it comes to decision-making well there are also instances where women are more decisive than men. There may be some instances where woman's decision is affected by her mood swings but then there are some women who can decide and stick with it. There are a lot of women leaders, women engineers, doctors, fire woman, drivers, messenger, gasoline girl and many more. Women can also withstand troubles like men. And I always believe on the equality between men and women where there should always be equal opportunity for both. The only thing that women can do that men can't is of course the miracle of giving birth. So now can you think of anymore job or thing a will make a woman weaker than man? Peace to all and happy mylotting!
@Paritosh123Misal (23)
• India
22 Feb 09
men are always stronger then women in case of physical strength and can be somehow weaker as compared to mental strenght because it depends from person to person.
@suzzy3 (8341)
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22 Feb 09
Apart from a few woman that bodybuild the average woman is weaker physically than a man.Women give birth which takes a lot of strength but we are built for it,men work longer hours and lift heavy things ,my husband can open jars easier than me.I prefer my man to be stronger than me anyway it is an added attraction for me.Women are mentally stronger then men,being able to juggle the home,kids needs, husbands needs,and may be a job as well, I would say most couples enhance each others strenghs as men don't have so much going on in their minds,they concentrate on one thing at a time.and I expect your mum discussed things with your Dad before you had the decision as that is what my husband and I do,It comes across to my son that I am a week idiot and he tells me,which is so unkind as I do more than he realises.I know some men who cannot decide what socks to put on in the morning and the women lays out his clothes strengths come in different guises.
@franfranflan (82)
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22 Feb 09
I dont know about that, I think man and woman are equalls regardless of their abilities to handle daily life. In my case, Im a single mum, a home owner, a worker, a friend and the most important thing of all is that all the desitions that go into my life are made by me. I think Im very good at leardership and maybe thats the reason why I cant get a bf!lol oh well...
I know I have a strong temper and whats more Im called a self-suffitient person, but i do belive some man are stronger than women a lot of the times because a man has the figure of leadership, only when he knows he will be the leader and he strongly belives in what he does and do. (only then it will work)
@itsme_cha (504)
• United States
22 Feb 09
yes i do think men are more stronger than woman in terms of leadership. they are good planner and take more risk than woman. men are very strong with their decission and they stand for it, its like a war no retret no surrender.
happy mylotting.
@ddfreedie (690)
• India
22 Feb 09
physically men are stronger than women...but mentally women are considered to be stronger....they burry lot of emotions and feelings within them...whereas men cant hide and of the feelings...they become tired when burried with emotions...
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I know many people will disagree with you on this topic. The thing to remember is that if it works in your family then great, but that does not mean it is that way everywhere. Women are very strong in many ways. Modern women have to manage all the same things as men do and then some...only we have to do it better than them to "prove" ourselves to people like you who still consider us to be frail and weak minded.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I disagree with you on this subject. Although your father may be the stronger one in your family, it is not like that all over. I for one am female, and have earned my place in a basically male dominated field. I am a wildland firefighter, have been for 14 years now. If I couldn't physically and mentally do the job, I wouldn't have been hired. I have taken quick and decisive steps in times of emergencies. I have also handled my fair share of hard times, both mentally and emotionally. I was also the only female fire fighter in the volunteer fire department where I was a member for 9 years. I went from communication's officer/dispatcher, to front line in 2 years time, within 3 years I was made second in command. And there are many more women out there that have stepped up and shown what women are capable of doing.
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I disagree with you, and not because I am a woma, but because there are many women who are stronger than men. In my household, I am the problem solver, the got-to person, the one that every one looks to when things need doing, fixing, whatever. I am the one who juggles finances to ensure the bills are paid and the kids have what they need. In my brother's family, he is the responsible one and the stronger of the two.
In years pst, the man was the bread-winner, and the woman was the housekeeper, the PTA Mom, theerrand runner, the grocery getter, the child taxi, you name it. For years, the woman has had a lot more to manage than the man in most cases.
For any man who thinks he is really stronger than a woman, I say trade her places for a day and do all that she does and is expected to do, then tell me how much stronger men are. I know that my husband would not want to trade me places for a day, we have discussed this before.
As far as decision making goes, I don't aree with that either. Men are more likely to make a split second decision rather than a well though out one that will be beneficial in the long run.
If you really think that men can withstand hard times better thn women, then answer this, why is it when a man and woman have a new baby and things get rough, the man often leaves? The woman is the one who stays with that child and raises it when the man tucks his tail between hi legs and turns away.
To me strength doesn't come from being a man or woman, it comed from life experience and how we are raised. If we are raised to solve problems and find solutions, we are more likely to be able to do it when we are adults. If we are raised to manage a busy schedule, we are likely to be able to do so as adults. If we go through hard times in life and learn from them, we are stronger.
@lakers247 (139)
• United States
21 Feb 09
First of all, i disagree with most of the things you have written. I'm a guy, and i have seen my share of very strong women. There are many women out there that are just as strong physically and mentally as many men. There are many women in the US that manage a household, raise kids, and have a job at the same time. For the longest time, men have been held in the highest regard simply because of the social status of the world. Men, based on their genetic capacity, have been able to physically stronger, so therefore, over the year, Men have developed the image of being stronger. However, within the past couple decades, women have been given more rights, and have met and exceed expectations in the work place and in society.
Also, it is wrong for you to assume the whole world is similar to your family, simply because your dad makes better decisions than your mom.
Btw, i had the same discussion in a one of my psychology classes last week lol