He's just NOT that into u
By kun2349
@kun2349 (23381)
Singapore
February 21, 2009 12:10pm CST
I have watched that movie today and i have learnt quite alot of things in it ^_^ IT has taught me things which i never knew, or maybe i knew, but i did not see it as something serious.. But here are a few important things i would like to share, from the movie ^_^
Lesson 1: Never give up hope on love regardless of how many times of bad dates and lousy relationship u have, because at the end of the day, one will definitely end up being with someone who is really into u ^_^
Lesson 2: If one always has got lots of guys or gals around them, which makes both u and me envy or jealous, dun be.. Because, they are nowhere to finding their Mr Right or Mrs Right in life ^_^
Lesson 3: Love is a kind happiness, which does not only involved 2 parties.. ONce there's a 3rd party in a relationship, all happy things are happening for the wrong reason ^_^
Lesson 4: Being married does not mean living happily after, and being single does not mean one is not happy at all..
IN the case of the movie, Couple A, bf is supposed to choose, 'marry her or leave her'.. He chose, marry.. But in the end end, they broke up.. For couple B, they have been dating for years and he has got no plans to get married till gf asks him, 'marry me or leave me'.. He choose silence and broke up.. But in the end, he proves to be the very important person in her life and they got married for, he really loved her alot to wanna her be happy ^_^
Lastly, a quote from it which i liked: Men whom dated a woman for years and but planning to marry them, are JERKS.. But Men whom marries when they are not ready for it, ARE A**holes!! Agree?? lol =D
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7 responses
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
5 Mar 09
Lol Kun,
I can't resist but quip in regarding the last quote where you said "Men whom dated a woman for years and but planning to marry them, are JERKS.. But Men whom marries when they are not ready for it, ARE A**holes!!"
So what does that leaves you? If you are a man and don't want to be either jerk or a**holes, then you jolly well only date someone when you are ready and intend to get married the next day after the date.
I haven't watched that movie yet though I saw the trailer twice on the screen. It's that kinda of popcorn movies which I usually only watch when there is nothing left to watch (or dragged along by a friend who is desperate for company).
And yes, what's wrong with being single? You get the choice freedom of growing old and dying alone in absolute chill. Kinda romantic.
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
6 Mar 09
Yah lor, you write wrongly how can blame me? I so innocent.
Anyway just trying to be funny lah.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
6 Mar 09
lol =D Man are jerks when they dun wanna marry the woman they have been dating for year, rather than, planning to marry them.. hehe
THus, if one has been in a relationship for years, i guess it's about time to get married and it's also being fair to the gal.. haha =D I think u read the quote wrongly and thus u got the wrong idea of things.. hehe
But then again, singel is a great feeling too, though one might feel bored and being alone at time ^_^
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
23 Feb 09
ha ha ha ha ha... Interesting review you got there.
Looks like a good movie to bring my wife to.
She loves this kinda movie.
Hmm... the last quote is very interesting too. Who said that in the movie?
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Feb 09
YEah, it's an interesting movie and your wife should like it.. hehe ^_^ The same goes for u too, as u will be able to leanrn alot of things and lessons about love.. hehe ^_^ Well, the quote is from, Bradley cooper starring as Ben, in the movie.. Other than that, there are quite a number of good quotes as well, but i like this the best.. lol =D
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
21 Feb 09
falling in love is an easy thing to happen and to do. it is finding the right person to spend the rest of his/her days with in marriage that is difficult to define/pinpoint.
people who are not ready for the deep relationship should never embark on marriage at all. the relationship is so very permanent that it is too hurting to break it up. after all, the ones who will suffer the most from it are the partners in the first place, then the children and relatives follow suit.
those who get married after having been convinced that the person who is the right one has already come indeed, are the luckiest ones!
may there be plenty of them around.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Feb 09
Yeah, very right.. That's why i have learnt about of things from the movie.. IT reallt reflects on majority of our life, when it comes to love ^_^ Love is about commitment and that one should really commit when they are ready.. If not, they are gonna hurt the others, but never themselves ^_^
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
22 Feb 09
That movie was hilarious! There were a lot of great lessons in it as well!
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@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
I still havent see the movie maybe by next week will do. Nice quotes. I think its really hard going thru the stage of getting married. My advice is just to hold onto the relationship when your married already. We all go thru trials, we just have to surpass it.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Feb 09
U should watch it soon.. It's a good movie and there are alot more good quotes in it ^_^ If one is planning to get married, this movie is able to sort of prepare couples for it too.. haha =D
Obstacles and trials in love are always there, but not everybody is able to resist the temptations involved ^_^ It's all depending on the love between the couples ^_^
@crimsonladybug (3112)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I think females put too much pressure on their misters to get married. I have actually seen relationships tank because the girl gave him that ultimatum...marry me or we're finished... He chose to find someone who wouldn't pressure him. That ultimatum rarely ends well.
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@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
23 Feb 09
Yup, nobody likes to be forced into marriage.. Marriage is about commitment, and there's no point in forcing when it's gonna end up in divorce at the end of the day ^_^ Let it be natural, and what seems good for now, might not be the case for the future ^_^
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
The title could also be reverse like she's just not that into you as it really happen in real lives especially if the man/woman lose interest with each other and have changes a lot of their priorities. let get exactly to the point being married or single is a matter of choice and each person is deem to have the right to choose which option they like best. But, for me it is fine that one should not be pressure to make a choice in a relationship as happiness could not depend on being marriage alone as many times it is like an ornaments when couples already get in with the illusion of lifetime partnership it is inside marriage that they only realize they have all been the victims of their emotion rushing things aside without thinking much of the consequences.
All the lesson you listed are fine, though the #2 states which drives a lot to be jealous of others who have a lots of Gf/Bf experiences which they are often undergo in a circus because they often left unsatisfied and insecure with their mates that they often not to stick around to one and hence the cycles just repeated..
Then lastly about the quotes, jerks could ether be an dull stupid person for me and most women fall for them because of their nice packaging complete in one like being talented, rich and handsome and so on that they come like a mystery before gal know it they already fall into their hands as their victims. And that is the big problem. A true jerk can't be changed and by the time a woman realizes it, it is it too late.
While the second quotes it is really true too as their is no need to marry someone whom you are not ready is tantamount to being a liar or cheater on the other hands
a great pretender who main object is to derive pleasure with little amount of truth in his feelings. Most nice guys I think are confine to their private world, very cool, honest but tend to be boring and too incline to be perfect that they often miss to find their real love unless they seek and try to find it. Though,love is all about giving chances and letting go at the same time...
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
10 Dec 09
lol =D YEah, the movie can be meant for a woman as well.. Actually in love, there's no difference in being a man or a woman.. After all, love is not about thinking or processing any information..
Love is about feelings and sensitivity to things that's happening.. haha =D Well, there will always be ncie guys around, and just like u say, they are hiding in their own world..
BUt they are definitely not as boring as u make out to be ^_^
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
Yup, it involves between the two couple concern...
and it is up for them to decide whether to continue or to let go of each other with their own individual reasons..
tough it may be, one need to face the consequences which matter even in the future aspect of their relationship...
Nice guy could only be nice as long as they never hide their true feeling and if they keep it hidden no one would bother to ever ask/know them...
and not all nice guy are real as some have mask of their own which they also fall under the category of jerks and the great pretenders...
maybe, not boring when they truly reveal their self identity not lurking every now and then...lol..