What kind of guy/girl would you marry?
By yanachka
@yanachka (30)
United Arab Emirates
February 21, 2009 1:56pm CST
This is similar to my previous discussion but a bit different.
What type of guy/girl would you marry: the cool, sexy, good looking and popular, OR the not cool, not very sexy, not popular, but caring, smart, honest, loyal?
Do you regret not getting with someone who you thought wasnt cool enough for you? And do you regret getting with someone who was cool, sexy, popular? Are you with someone now you wish you weren't with? Or do you wish you were with someone now you turned down one day? If you are single now, who would you choose this time?
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16 responses
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I would rather pick someone who is really my "soulmate". Understand my point of views, and who we share the similar views toward this world, this society. To answer your question. Sometimes, you might be blinded by the fact you marry someone that you thought you will get your happiness with, because she is good looking, sexy. Sometimes, you have to look deep enough; to see whether that is the your eternity. Don't fool by the look.
@patelabhi (106)
• India
22 Feb 09
If you had asked the question like"What kind of girl would you like to have as a girlfriend.?".My answer would be sexy and only sexy.But when it comes to marriage,,i would marry though not sexy,,but cool,caring,smart ,honest,loyal and beautiful..!!
And i think if i get a girl as mentioned above,,i would be the luckiest man on the earth...!!
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
22 Feb 09
I love to marry with someone that care and love me and my children if I am single now. Cool, sexy or whatever you said are not fitting me and they are not my style either. Those are just a cheat, people that I call cool when they are success in their life and great with his/her family.
If you married someone that is sexy, he/she knows only how to make up and dress sexy and going out to be cool. Am I right? I believe if someone that is good or great person, he/she will never show off and he/she will prove it to you.
Nothing that I say about regret, I made my own choice and I walk on this road on my own so everything shoul be good for me and I know it will not be all prefect. As long as he loves me and children then it is good enough for me. Married life is not easy and you have to make clear before you say "I DO"
@a1m2a3r4 (2)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 09
Wow, an interesting topic. I think, sometimes we get someone our eyes the best. Faithful, beutiful, sexy, smart, hot and honest. That we love. But not all people get what they want. Human nature will not be satisfied. 'Neighbors grass will be green'. Just accept it. What is surely the GOD given answer
@dandit (132)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 09
One day I hope gets girl who is having interesting appearance,devoted and not many claiming. A matter of time, of course not now, I feel has not made ready.
@SEPCHILD97 (55)
• China
22 Feb 09
i would like to merry a guy who love me and know me and let me be myself,i think cool,sexy,popula,good looking or even money is not so important in my view,for these things will change when time goes by ,but someone can understand you will make you feel love and feel you two together is an amazing thing.
@psychodjin (185)
• Malaysia
22 Feb 09
I would choose someone who can accept me as I am. For me the basic characteristic of a "soulmate" is that she must love me and I think the love of a soulmate get stronger as she/he gets to know and accept every part of you.
@girlie_techie12 (48)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
I'm contented of whom Im with right now., he's all I wished for.
I want someone who will protect me., you'll make me feel complete. Someone that is proud of me. Someone who'll love me as me, and someone that will hang on till end :)
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
22 Feb 09
I need one who is understanding and who is broad minded. someone who is earning, he need not be too rich or too poor. he must earn sufficient for me him and our family on the whole. He must be cool and humorous and must have patience. I dont require any celebrity , i just need a person who loves me and our children then anyone else.
@gayathrigs (871)
• India
22 Feb 09
I like to marry someone who is broadminded and someone who is decent respectful towards others and ofcourse good looking too. I dont go for looks generally but the person whom i am going to marry must have a face which can be seen, must not be face like a drunkard which people hate to see. If he is in a good position, which means that which is sufficient for him me and our children is enough for me. I dont want a person who is too rich or who is too poor. For me a traditional and decent guy is more important than anything else. one who is earning, one who is decent is the one am looking for. and i need any celebrity.
@venz_punk44 (113)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
well i choose the right one, the one who understand for what i am right now, the to fight away my fears, the one that you loved me much, for me appearance is not mattered...thats all.god bless you...
~___^
happy my lotting....
@maanrodriguez (604)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
to be honest and a bit blunt, I dont think there really is a cookie cut type out there. I mean you can plan all you want but once you get hit by love all your plans will fallout the window. all those traits that you listed out painstakingly? out the door.
my fiance is the direct opposite of what my ideal partner is. and no it's not because he's cool or he's cute. I choose to be with him because he takes care of me and with him I dont have to pretend. he accepts me for me and I accept him for him.
There are really no rules when it comes to love. and I didnt realize it until it hit me big time.
@juliotostado (168)
• Chile
21 Feb 09
I want to marry a girl that its nice, sweet, pretty (not sames as hot or sexy), very relaxed and trustuble, just that. Jajajaj if its not much to ask.
@cvrajan (354)
• India
22 Feb 09
If you ask this question to already married persons, the majority answer will be "Oh! Any one who is not similar to my existing partner!".
There are two types of people -- those who are particular to pick and choose what they want; they will have a big wish list; they will keep adding specifications without bothering whether THEY really deserve getting a partner to that specification. Many of them end up only to find ultimately that they got "cheated" or disappointed.
The other group is more practical. They will have much less specifications and once the baseline is okay, they will accept what they get and learn to live adjusting with their partner. They will be more successful in marital life.
All said and done, a successful marriage is not guided by what you know about the person before marriage; it is more to do with what you had not known before! Everyone wears masks and the masks are thrown away only after marriage!
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
21 Feb 09
i would marry a bomb...the day i throw her on the bed...she will explode onto me...that was something really hot...sorry.
i would marry a very decent girl/woman .who has modesty. who knows to take care of herself as well as me.she can stand by me when i need her...she can cook...can wash...can make me feel real kool...
her height would be around 5' 10"weight around 55-60 kg (max)
lovely skin
long hairs
blue eyes
nice boobs
perfect round back...
oh its making me feel so hot now...oh god...
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
21 Feb 09
well, i think i would chose the second one. That not very sexy, not popular, but carring, smart, honest, loyal, but she should be cute. And yes, i`m with someone now, that i wished not to be. I don`t really know why i`m with her, but i hate that. Yes, i wished to be with a girl, and one day, she told me that she wants to be together, and what i said? that i can`t see her then, because i really have to learn for an exam. I was younger then. If that will happen again, it will be so ifferent. I`m with the girl that i don`t wish to be, and i feel like i`m single..... So, if i would chose now, i would chose a cute girl, a loyal girl.. she needs some qualities: carring, to love and to let me to love her, to be a little crazy(like me, or more), and i don`t know, she must love kids, she must comunicate, she must know how and when to be sensual and when to be like a boy...