How do I determine who a real good friend is? (Please read +help! )

this question should be asked by u to u...consider ur friends...are they really helpful to you...do they share everythink...do you feel secure with them... ask questions like these and rate them...thats the best way to find a good friend

When you put it like, "They have other people to talk to, and hang around with," it sounds a bit selfish, because everyone has other people to talk to. But I understand your feelings. Sometimes I feel so lonely and possessive of my friends that I don't want them to be with other people, and it feels like I'm watching them from afar. I can't really give you any good advice, since I've never really found a quick way out of the situation, but it sounds like you've never really tried to integrate yourself into the community. I guess all you can do is start talking to more people, like those in your classes, and talk about the things you're interested in. It might seem awkward at first but there's not much else that you can do.