Forgive and forget

just like the others, i think the forgiving part is easier compared to the forgetting part because it's really hard to forget something that made a strong impact in your being and molded you to the person you are in the present.

Hi Nivedita, its possible to forgive and forget. But forgiving takes few seconds, but forgetting takes many days, even years also sometimes.

Hello nivedita1, well to forgive is very easy but it will take time to forget

In my experience a person who "cheats" is not likely to change. They may come up with all kinds of excuses for their cheating but no excuse is a good excuse. A person who has the ability to cheat will probably cheat again. For the person who has been cheated upon, I do not feel that "forgiving" is an issue. It is not up to the person who was cheated upon to forgive. It is up to the cheater to prove that he/she will not cheat again. Time is too precious and good relationships are too rewarding to go through the hell of being with a cheater. Think better of yourself and move on to a more healthy relationship. Believe me, I know from experience.

Hi, I pray... So that HE helps me to have the TRUST, on "TRUST".... I pass in HIS TESTs... =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

yeah the saying forgive and forget can be implemented because mistakes happen with everybody.. and one chance can be given to everyone.. nd by doing so the person will realise his mistake and wont repeat that again...