When to Give Negative Rating?
By eichs1
@eichs1 (1934)
Philippines
February 22, 2009 2:44pm CST
I haven't rated anyone negatively yet and before I do, I want to know first how you guys decide to give a negative rating?
Do you do it because one disagrees with you in the topic you started?
Do you give one because you don't like the responder?
Do you rate one negative because you suspect she/he had rated you the same before?
Do you award it because you just feel like giving a negative rating?
Or you have other reasons?
Please enlighten me.
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21 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
22 Feb 09
That's it!
and whatever the colour we are all *stars* on myLot!
@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
Many of us did nothing wrong, but still, some took time to rate us negatively. Maybe they don't know how to rate discussions and responses or just wanted to disregard rules. Well, that's life. Wherever we are, there are those who only wants to make life harder to anyone else.
But @mysdianait is right. Whatever star it is, it is still a star.
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@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
22 Feb 09
I've never given a negative rating, but I think they should be used for trolls,and people looking to start arguments, intead of discussions. like the people who ask for your opinion, and then get upset when you give it. some people give negatives if you don't agree with them. that's not a good reason for giving someone a negative.
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
29 Apr 09
Yes, it looks like you always think of positive things and positive ratings that's why you have a blue star.
It is good that there are many myLot members who thinks like you that differences in opinion should not be a reason to rate others negatively. I really wish that the likes of you increases for a better and much mature discussions.
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@thezone (9394)
• Ireland
22 Feb 09
I have never given a negative rating to any discussion. It even has it in the mylot FAQ.
http://www.mylot.com/o/faq/faq17.aspx.
Different opinions is what make myLot work as a good discussion site. Without peoples opinion, there would not be a myLot.
I would only ever consider giving a negative rating if I felt the user was abusing myLot. Although most of the time I wouldn't rate at all if a member was abusing Mylot.
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
How boring myLot would be if everyone just state agreement to the one who started the discussion .
I believe we should really give negative rating if the responder or thread started is going overboard. However, I may have to think ten times before giving such rating because I have to make sure that the person is aware of what he/she is doing.
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@saffrondreams (596)
• Canada
22 Feb 09
I don't think that disagreeing with someone is a good reason to give a negative rating. I don't even give negative ratings to people who are rude to me. I only give people negative ratings if they're breaking the rules, trolling, or spamming.
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I rarely negatively rate someone, but I find that I do it when they are spamming out their referral links like nobody's business. This is annoying, and hardly helpful (and also against the rules, I'm pretty sure), and it just bugs me. *shrugs*.
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 09
Hi eichs1, How is the weather at Philipine today? Bali is cloudy. I won't give a negative rating. I believe we are here have the same purpose and learn something. All i want just post and sharing. Alls that. You know, negative suspicious people sometime talks about them self.
Happy posting always, oxox' dian from Bali island.
@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
Hello neighbor! Sorry for replying back to your response this long. I was thinking of answering this before but apparently, I forgot to.
Anyway, that's good of you just concentrating in posting and sharing your thoughts. I also want to just concentrate on that but there are posts I really think have to be reported to myLot and those I think have to be rated negatively. I haven't given any negative rating though ever since I joined myLot. I hope I don't even have to do it in the near future.
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
23 Feb 09
My reasons for giving negatives may include those who are being unreasonably rude, are in violation, or are spamming or posting nonsense. But it depends on the exact situation. A newbie violating a rule will not get a negative, just a friendly heads up, unless of course they continue violating the rules even after being told.
I do not give a negative if a person disagrees with me provided they have done so in an adult manner.
I do not give negatives based on my friendship or lack thereof with the poster.
I do not give a negative in response to how I feel they may have rated me.
I do not give a negative just because I feel like it.
I give negatives very rarely and only when I feel they are truly deserved.
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@MinruWind (194)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I would give someone a negative rating if they posted something non-related to the topic. People have rights to give opinions, so I don't think it would be fair to give some one a negative rating if they disagree. If you have something against the poster, I don't think it's fair either, since they're really doing nothing wrong. You never know who rated you negatively before, so you might just end up negative rating an innocent person. If you "just feel like it", you're basically giving the person gloom because you're in that mood. I think you should just be fair in your ratings.
@vijayanandp (682)
• India
23 Feb 09
I have not given any negative rating to any one till now and well i would like to know why the need to give a negative rating to any one, well every one has his own decision to respond , if you like you reply him else forget him but why to give a rating to him?
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@sugiono (57)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 09
i don't even know that people can give us a negative rating, i myself is a new user to this site and really appreciate that others can help me too. by the way i only know how to mark the best response and i will never put any negative rating that effect other people. to the most i just won't mark it as the best response
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Yes @sugiono, myLot want us to give a best response award in discussions we started. It also wants us to rate other replies - positive if the response contributes somehow to the discussion and negative if a post does nothing but violate the site's regulations and guidelines.
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@jshekhar (1562)
• India
23 Feb 09
I would NEVER rate anyone negative if he/she does not agree with me on a particular topic. In fact, the whole purpose of having discussion is to know about the different views of different people, which can be in agreement or otherwise from mine.
I would rate a topic as negative if I think there is no quality in it.Sometimes people start discussions just for the sake of it.
I would typically rate those one or two line responses/ discussions as negative. However, I am not too much into giving negative rating
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Now, I will make sure that I gave more than one-line answer when responding to your discussions. . Yes there are one-line answers that do not contribute to discussions and myLot guidelines says we should avoid giving such. I saw some short posts though that are substantial.
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@vikrantrox (220)
• India
23 Feb 09
I too have never given any one negative rating. I and i am sure i will not give too. I am against giving negative rating. Not even if he is cheating or doing something wrong. People have been very kind here and i dont want to introduce that hatred here. Its a happy family and wanna stay it happy forever. God has been kind to us and so we get responses from our friends and other members, but what who dont get any responses, they are trying their best too....instead of giving negative response just because we have the power, i would prefer to make him understand the right way.
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
I also find it hard to hit the negative rating button. I avoid it as much as possible. However, the (-) are there for some good reasons and are spelled out in myLot's FAQ section. We the members should read how the rating system should be used and we should use them properly.
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@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
I have read from MyLot that giving negative reports can do harm for users. So i don't and i will never give any negative remarks on such users even if it gets your nerve when they respond to your discussion or so.
I am very careful here not to offend anyone. Since Mylot is to promote unity among each users and not to go into heated debate or argument. They have the right to lower your points i guess.
So on my own personal opinion, i would not like to rate any users a negative post.
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
Yes, when you rate negatively and it's found out that you give it for the wrong reasons, it will also harm your ratings.
I also don't want offensive arguments. I can go with hated responses though as long as everyone sticks with the topic and remain respectful to each other.
Hmmmm.... I don't think anyone has the right to lower your rating/reputation is you are not doing something wrong. This is a discussion/opinion so everyone should accept that.
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@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I will give a negative rating if the response has no meaning to the original post. I figured why did they answer then if they had nothing to say or they were just going to sound like they were high. i am sure all posters here have had that odd response were you are just like "what is this person on?" I know I have .
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
23 Feb 09
eichs1,
I do not think there is so much incidents or posts that would warrant a negative rating except for some trolls and some unbecoming members who spams the discussions. So far, most of the posts here are relatively within the decency boundaries, there may be strong harsh words but that's just normal in any hot debatable issues.
IMO, I would not be giving negative ratings based on what you have brought up here. It would not be fair to do it, certainly not conducive for a healthy and objective discussion.
Take care.
@dorisday1971 (5657)
• Philippines
26 Apr 09
I haven't given a negative rating even if the response is very bad and is attacking me personally. I would rather leave those responses uncommented to avoid getting a fight. I once received a negative rating from somebody who didn't want me to share my own experience to the discussion she responded. I felt bad about it. I don't want to offend anybody here, that's why I don't give negative ratings.
@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
I share the feeling @dorisday1971. I responded to some discussions here and I also felt bad that someone rated me negatively just because I don't share their views. The sad thing is, I felt somebody is shadowing me around and giving me bad ratings from time to time.
As others have shared though, let's not be discouraged in sharing our own opinions. I'm sure our real friends here will rate us accordingly.
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@jeseravi (337)
•
23 Feb 09
I only give a negative rating if the post is totally off topic. For example, I ask you ask a question about how to say... fix your car. And I reply saying how much I love rollar coasters. There's really no point in me saying that, and it's totally irrelavant. Irrevalancy = negative rating as far as I'm concerned.
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@Chastised_Dreamz (559)
• United States
26 Apr 09
I don't rate someone negative because they disagree with me. I rate people negatively if they are promoting false information or if they are being rude and disrespectful to another MyLot user just because they disagree with them. There are people here who start topics and award the best response to someone who completely disagrees with them, I received one of those before. If a person disagrees with me but they gave a well thought out response then I will give them a positive rating.
I also wouldn't give someone a negative rating because I thought that they rated me negative themselves and I wouldn't give one just because I feel like it.
@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
27 Apr 09
Well said @Chastised_Dreamz. I also saw some of those thread starters who still award the best response to a response that disagreed with them. I think that's a sign of maturity and these are the people that make myLot a much better place.
I may pass on rude and disrespectful comments but I might rate negatively those who are promoting false information.
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@momtrying2makeit (3270)
• United States
26 Apr 09
I myself only knew that you could give a neagative rating a few weeks ago. I have used it only when I felt that the person really was not making an effort to respond to my discussion. I am not really into giving people a bad rating I think it is kinda of unfair in a way. My hope is that I think they will do better as they learn the rounds here at mylot. I hope I answered your questions here and happy mylotting as well.
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@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
28 Apr 09
You give a very good answer @momtrying2makeit. Me too. As much as possible, I don't want to rate one negatively. It's sort of unfair since we don't know the responder personally. But I may give it if it is really called for.
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