do you say BAD WORDS when you are angry?
By donnakristel
@donnakristel (1704)
Philippines
February 22, 2009 11:32pm CST
what do you say when you are mad?
me, sometimes, i can't help it. when i am really really really mad! i say bad words. i feel better when i express myself. i know it sounds negative and hurtful but i want to express it. the more i keep it, the more it hurts.
how about you?
do you say bad words when you are mad?
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26 responses
@celestial052506 (2914)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
I am trying my best not to say bad words when I am angry. And thankfully I am glad that I can control my tongue to say bad things. It is just a matter of self control. Think about positive things when you are angry. Saying bad words wouldn't help actually but it will ruin your reputation when somebody hears you.This will be registered in their minds and let them think, what kind of person you are. BAD WORDS,,,,
@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
thanks.
good for you...you can control your mouth.i wish i could too.
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@neha2k94u (406)
• India
24 Feb 09
Well to be true I do use certain bad words...But not much to a level that anybody can tolerate...and though I am very Happy go Lucky natured person...This way I behave only somebody makes certain huge mistake...And not otherwise...
Happy mylotting dear...
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
Hi donnakristel! I guess, we all have different ways in releasing our anger. With me, when i really am angry/mad, I usually keep quiet. It is better that way for me because if I will lash out, I am sure that I might kill someone with my words. haha..So, I just better hold my tongue.
Take care and blessings to you always!
lovelots..faith
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
thanks.
whew!
how did you do that? when i am furious, i want to express everything...haaha..btter not to say anything or you'll be in bars..LOL
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@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
25 Feb 09
Hellyeah!
I can curse like a trucker when I'm mad. And sometimes not when I'm mad, too.
I grew up around newfies and it was kinda normal.
I am very creative.
@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
hahaha...
normal? whew! that is same to me too..hahhaa
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@cross10 (506)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 09
well it happen to anybody i guess..but for me whenever i get mad, i try to keep the bad word within myself instead of saying it and hurts the people i get mad with..Since i several time get exploded and say really bad things and make them suprised.
Well it is better for ourself if we can express our anger emotion in better way, such with hobby
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
thanks..
maybe, i should be mellow in saying bad words.
@woundedeagle13 (137)
• India
24 Feb 09
Well there are only few things in this world which makes me angry, but then too when i get angry i usually prefer not to speak bad words because that is not going to do any good and only make things more worse.
@zatak07 (699)
• India
23 Feb 09
ya i hav that tendancy but most of the i always remember that Bible verse(from the book of James)........" slow to speak & slow to become angry......for man's anger does not bring about God's righteous pupose He had for you "......
But here i said "i try " , honestly i succumb most of the time.
good question buddy !
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@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
23 Feb 09
Hahaha , i say them alot , and yeah theyre VERY expressive , and it sometimes gets ur point across , i mean i dont know what else to say whenever something heavy slams on ur baby toe , what would you say ? " Oh Pickels !! " Heck no u wouldnt , you would drop plently of F bombs lol and theres nothing wrong with that
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
thanks.
i think pickels are cute...but it is better to use those heavy words, lol.
can't help it.lol
@karubod (603)
• India
24 Feb 09
Yes ofcourse i do use bad words when i'm really furious .....mostly i try to stay cool but when i get angry obviously it maddens me .....it's good to express yourself .but after we calm down it is important to apolozise in case we have hurt any one by our anger ,it works like magic and helps to repair the damage,even we are relieved of guilty feeling.....
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@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
23 Feb 09
When I am mad I jsut listen to some music and that usually calms me .I dont usually curse bad words because of the way that I was raised but I suppose that the time may come when I might be tempted beyond my control.That hasnt happened yet and I am hopin it nevr comes but I am not ruling it out
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
thanks..
i hope it will not happen to you because you might not control yourself.
@achinthya (1216)
• India
23 Feb 09
I think everyone has the problem of speaking out the unwanted words when they became out of control or very angry, I am also one of them but after cooling myself I realise my mistake and I used to apolise to the person if its my mistake or point out to him why I have scream with such a bad words.Have a great day!!
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@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
23 Feb 09
When I get really mad, I still don't say bad words. Because saying bad words doesn't helps reliefing my madness.
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@Lindery (853)
• Latvia
23 Feb 09
Yes, sometimes I do and I am not proud of it. I try and don't say insults, only some trifling swearing which doesn't have a meaning for longer than an anger goes for.
In most of the times I try to go away from a fight and calm down, because I know that words can hurt more than a kick.
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@vicky30 (4766)
• India
23 Feb 09
I don't say bad words when i am mad.I will just go to a corner and sit quietly.When i am very angry i go to a lonely place but start the bad word and never complete it.When someone gives me bad words.I just laugh and go by.When i am angry i will not eat food and won't speak to anyone.
@clickicy (571)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 09
Well, I don't.
Let say, even when my anger is a highest possible. I know that my anger would never solve the problem that cause my anger... But I do rise my so loud.
I ever mad at my 2 years daughter-makes her cry in tears and her heart beats fastest - Even when I type this; I still can't forgive myself; I still can't believe I am doing it;.
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
thanks..
when we are mad, we can't control ourselves..
well, sorry about your daughter.
i hope you have forgiven yourself.
@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
how sad.
i know how bad you feel when your husband speaks bad words.
take care.
@eichs1 (1934)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
I don't get mad, I just got even..
Kidding aside, I easily get mad but I rarely need the bad words to help express myself. I really don't know how I can rattle hundreds of words when I'm angry but never with useless a$$s and the f***s and the sh...s or whatever non-sense words. I also learned not to attack ones personality when we are having heated arguments. I just stick with the topic.
I am not also affected if someone shouts bad words at me. Bad words have many meanings and some have no meaning at all. Why should I let myself affected with nonsensical words. I know myself well and that I can assess when one is right on how he/she calls me.
I am not saying that bad words are useless. I actually use them where I think they are appropriate, whether I am angry or not.
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
thanks.
hahaha..you get even?
that is really mean?LOL it sure is.
@chriswolf (360)
• China
23 Feb 09
I say bad words too when I am outraged. It is some sort of nerve release. But it really hurts people. So for me, I try my best not scold others in the face and just say some bad words when I am alone. I hope this will help a little bit.
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@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
thanks
it is a good release.
but what release will it be? aside from saying bad words?
@saimca_09 (21)
• India
23 Feb 09
I too use bad words when i loose myself.i cnat do anything.if any body irritates that will be the situation.i also know that the words used by me will be painful but yet it will be the situation to used.
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