"Your welcome for the business"
By saundyl
@saundyl (9783)
Canada
February 23, 2009 11:49am CST
A lady came in this morning and purchased a system. We said thank you and helped her with packing the system to the car. Gave her her invoice thanked her for the payment and told her to have a great day.
As she was walking out the door she says "well your welcome for the business"
Her tone of voice was rather snide like she figured we didnt appreciate the business or hadnt said thank you. Which we had. I actually felt rather offended at her tone. But said "thank you" again. After she was gone my co-worker made a comment saying "who says your welcome for the business?"
Have you ever said it? Why? Would you say it? and what would you be meaning by saying it?
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11 responses
@miccant (154)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I dont think I would ever say that to someone who has been very pleasent. There are some rude people that you want to make comments to but its best to say nothing. I always tell the cashier or the person helping me thank you. I feel that they were nice to help. Alot of places you go the sales team act like they dont want to be bothered by people.
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@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I hate when people are rude when it's their job to provide good customer service. Sometimes it is so difficult to find pleasant people who know how to provide good customer service, so when I see that, I certainly do appreciate it.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
23 Feb 09
I only say something when someones been extra rude - more likely to make a written complaint in that case than to actually say something.
I will say that I'm not interested in selling things - that isnt my job mine is to fix things however when my co-worker who is the sales person is busy i do try to help and be nice about it and not all i dont want to be bothered. I am however lacking knowledge about what we can order and I'm upfront about that saying that you have to talk to my co-worker about that sort of thing.
@miccant (154)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I feel that as long as the person is upfront about the fact that, that is not their department and they are filling in, that you should never get mad at the person. Just be glad someone is filling in and waiting on you. You seem like a good person to have, not many people will help out like that. The most common saying is its not my job. I use to work in the retail world but got tired of rude customers.
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@solson (406)
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23 Feb 09
I have had that before and at the time of the incident i feel very angry but you just got to know that your better than that. Also in the long run you did make a sale and thats a good things no matter how the other person treats you. You just got to move on and help the next costumer and make another sale and hopefully the next person is a lot nicer. Good luck with the next people you make a sale to hopefully they are a lot nicer.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
23 Feb 09
I felt a tad offended...not enough to be rude or angry...just enough that i was confused by her behaviour. Especially since i tried to be nice and even said since there was a semi in front of the building she could park to the side in the employee parking when she came in about parking before buying a computer.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Hi saundyl! That sure did sound like a rather rude comment to me!
It seemed quite unnecessary after you had already helped her to
her car and loaded the merchandise. I'm quite sure you had already
said thank you when you rang up the sale! What more did she want?
Sounds like she was the type that expected people to "kiss her
azz" and probably was this way to everyone that she deals with
in her life and probably not that well liked!
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@tea512 (687)
• United States
24 Feb 09
got to hand it to you I hate dealing with the public in any role. I know this had limited my job prospects but I would be horrible if i had to be nice to strangers all day. My current job you could say I have internal customers but it not the same. We all work together you get to know then and everyone is in the same boat so to speak. What you have to put up with day after day would kill me. I am sure i have never said your welcome for the business but not sure I have not been gruff with a slaesperson sorry
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@NuttyMomma (901)
• United States
23 Feb 09
she sounds like a real b#@*! maybe she didn't feel like anyone was attentive enough. customer service is tough!!
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
24 Feb 09
It is tough!
I feel torn sometimes - do i answer the phone or don't i...people swing both ways about phones and rudeness...some think (like i do) its rude to answer the phone while serving a customer and other think its rude to let it go to the machine...and even others think its rude to answer then put them on hold.
She did come back later on to buy something else.
@NuttyMomma (901)
• United States
24 Feb 09
let's put it this way, there are some people you can never please. my rule of thumb when choosing between the ringing phone and the customer standing in front of you is to say excuse me a minute to the customer, answer the phone and politely tell the caller to hold on. giving good customer service is tough. you sound like you care and unfortunately not a lot of customer service people do anymore. you are probably underpaid and doing more than one job. hang in there!!
@elysium (169)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I never said that before. Reading what you wrote, that does sound like rude reply. I would never say that because it sounds as if you only went to that place to buy something because you had no other place to go to. If I said that, I know I would be saying it on purpose to make themselves feel bad. People need to be careful of what they say and think about it before they say it out loud.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
24 Feb 09
No other place to go...technically thats true in town here - unless you want to drive 2 hours or order online we ARE the only place in town to buy computers. Either way she did have alternatives.
I've never said it either. I have told people what i think of their service if its poor but i say it right out not in a cryptic or sarcastic tone or leaving them to wonder.
@callyw (191)
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23 Feb 09
I used to work in a shop and we would get customers who were rude for no reason at all. I used to be really polite to them and hope that later they would feel guilty (probably not!) It's a strange thing to say and I can't imagine why she would say it and what she meant - there are some very strange people around!
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
23 Feb 09
No, I agree with you. That sounds pretty snobby for someone to say, and I would never say it to someone. I suppose if the saleperson was rude and seemed incredibly unappreciative I might say something regarding his attitude (such as, "You're pretty impolite to a customer who is bringing business to your store..."), but if they were kind in general and said thanks and everything the way you explained, I would certainly not say something so offensive!
I have been treated very badly and in those cases I do tend to comment regarding the fact they should have better customer service, but I would only do such a thing in extreme cases. I still wouldn't say "You're welcome for the business!"
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
23 Feb 09
I admit that when its really busy i forget if I've said thank you but..it wasnt busy at the time and I always try to make a point of saying thank you and have a nice day or have a good weekend...Try to make people feel welcome to come back.
I hate being treated badly in stores so i try not to do it myself. I know how much i hate when a cashier answers the phone and chats with someone when I'm there trying to pay so I always either ask if a customer minds if i answer the phone (if they dont mind i answer and let them know I'll return their call or ask them to hold) or let it go the the machine and return the call after they have left. I feel if someones made the effort to drive into town and come in they deserve my full attention.
@jesssp (2712)
• Canada
23 Feb 09
I would've said 'thanks AGAIN' with an ever so slightly snotty emphasis on the again. Part of my job (the part I don't like) is customer service and while I've learned to be sickeningly sweet most of the time there is definitely a line people can cross that causes the fake smile to disappear from my lips. I will say please and thank you to people who don't really deserve it all day long but if they start being outright rude to me then game over. I have never ever heard of someone saying 'you're welcome for the business'; what a tacky, smug thing to say. I've heard and said 'THANK YOU for the business' a million times but someone presuming that you weren't grateful by turning it around is just plain ignorant.
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@okkidokitokki (1736)
• United States
23 Feb 09
I have never said that, but I have heard the phrase from others. The times I have heard that phrase was in a positive manner, from one small busines owner to another, and most commonly just after the first time they had done business with each other with the promise of more to come.
She could have been being rude, but it is also a possibility that with the economy the way it is she was being sincere and at the same time was upset at having to spend what she did. Most likely it was no reflection on the service she was given.
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@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
24 Feb 09
Drives me wacko the ruder people are the less i want to deal with them and I'm not someone who wants to deal with people to begin with - I'm not a sales person I'm the person in the back room fixing things only to pop my head out of my cave when theres a ton of people and the sales girl is swamped...or on holidays.