friend or crush

i think i put a stop to it if it persist then ill get the police in vovlved and ill tell his wife and i could go further but im not going to jail

i mean by having something happene to him not legally. he stopped calling but now he iming me and wanting to talk all the time and im tring to advoid him. i talk to soemone who said i can get the police invovlved without my husband knowing, but my husband works for the governmnet so i nned to watch what i do with this guy. and wanting to talk in person and when i do see him he doesnt say anything . yeah i think he stalking me and an i dnthink he is realizing what he is doing and one thing about me is you dont threaten me to get me to talk that will make me do soemthing that isnt legal.

I don't see how you'd go to jail for requesting a restraining order against the guy. It seems like you've got pretty good grounds for it. Hopefully he'll leave you alone, though.

honestly i really dont know, he started by leaving a note on my car while i was at a assembly for my daughter. i didnt know he felkt like that toward me until later. he called me two time fri and then when i didnt answer that when he shows up at my daughter school to see if im ok. we went out for lunch once or twice of course im not going to turn down a free lunch but then he jsut wanted to see me all the time and i tried backing off and it started to get worse and i would turn down invutes for lunch and try to leave from place like i was in a hurry. he say he wont do anythign but im about to tell his broyhther and find out more in fo about him i tried to look up his criminmal record but i didnt see anything.

yup....

i told him to stop before and he stopped for a while then started up again and i didnt respond to any of it i just kept saying thanks.. but i ended having one of my friend go with me to pick up my daughter and she a big girl and she scared him off he took off and my friend said he sounds like a stalker too. he used to pick up his grandson at my daughter school the year prior and he know i have no feelings for him and i tell him m like it is. he say he respect my marriage but right now i m not thiking he does because he gave me flowers for valentines day which i threw out. i have told him to back off he back off for a while then starts up again so i might just have to tell my husband i told him i was being watched and i have to watch what im doing.

yeah it was, it got to the point where i told one of my friend sand he was going to the school with me and having uncoverpoilce going to the school too,to this day they still do, last thurs the guy came by the school leaning really hard on my car door and deep in side it kinda scared me and he said he would leave me alone and then turns around and calls me 3 times after i had told him not to call me. so first he not listening to what im telling him, so in response he not respeccting me. he try to threaten me saying he was going to tell my hsuband and i told him you domt threaten me with b.s that will get you hurt or killed and he keept tring to kiss my butt and that wasnt working then i could of swore i saw his car in my neighborhood an started to get a bad feeling so i was tring to back away, so after last thurs and calling me 3 time the next fri i had had it. i called the police and they told him not to contact me or go to my residence or be at the school he has no reason to be there and if he dont then additional criminal charges will be brought upon him. so right now i think he keeping low but i dont know how long that will last. im watching out and so are my friends, and so im just waiting for him to slip up. and hopefully he got the hint to leave me alone.

That is a bad idea my friend. He will definitely get the wrong idea if she has coffee with him. She wants his unwanted attention to stop, not to encourage him!

then follow the later idea.. get him beat.. i bet he wont come bck lukin for her ..???

i had a discussion with him today and told him to stop calling me and i guess the way i said it he took it the wrong way and threaten to tell my husband and i thought i had mislead him nd he said no but he siad because we had soem thing i nn common he thought there was aconnection and he know that im not interested in him . i told him not to call any more because of my husband and ill see what happen after this and see if he still show up at my daughter school to see me and if he does ill have my friend put him in check because i cant do a restarining order because of my hsuband security clearance. i told him to back off and let me have my space and told him also that i m not the type to be telling my feeling if soemthing is bothering me let it be dont push me to find out what it is. he started to cry on the phone i was like omg but if this perstisit i will tell his wife and have the school fire him from his job if he wants to play. i dont ahve a job so i cant get fired