Can anybody relate to this guy?
By cordharmonie
@cordharmonie (82)
United States
February 23, 2009 5:17pm CST
Does anybody else have the same type of experience? I do.
I feel like I KNOW the answers to some things, and I can most definitely advise people on what I think is best... but I never can follow my own advice. I get stuck into my own drama, and I can sometimes figure out what to do... but don't always do it. I have better luck with other people's problems.
Anybody else like this?
1 response
@luckydolphin98 (168)
• Australia
24 Feb 09
You know why people can advise others but unable to follow their own advise? Well its because it is easier to speak and tell people what to do rather that doing it yourself.
As a third person, you can see the relationship of your friend in a clearer manner without all the "feelings" inside it.. therefore you are able to advise of the best action.
In your own relationship, as you said, sometimes you are able to figure it out, your head knows what to do ... its just that your heart doesnt want to follow... because now "feelings" get calculated in the equations.
I suggest, take it easy... learn to control your action... learn to control your feelings too.. :)
