At what age would you let your child go out with friends unaccompanied?

Philippines
February 23, 2009 8:27pm CST
Hi everyone.I see a lot of young teenagers on group dates.Do you think it's ok to allow 12 to 15 year old kids to be out with friends with no adult supervision.There are a lot of bad elements out there and I'm not willing to take the risk. What's your opinion on this?
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• Philippines
25 Feb 09
An appropriate age for wearing makeup is normally between 12 to 14 years old. This is the age many make the transition into Junior High and High school. Personally I feel 13 is better. They've officially begun the teen years. When you feel your daughter is ready, I would recommend taking them to a cosmetic counter for a makeover to see different looks that you are both comfortable with.
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
ooops sorry, I supposed to post this to the one I read first...hehehe.
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
it's ok...no problem
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
Hi julialaurene.thanks for sharing your thoughts on teen's wearing makeup.i'd probably start a new discussion on this topic.i would love to know your comment on teens going out unaccompanied. Happy mylottin!
• United States
24 Feb 09
No. They can go with me chapparoned but they are not going out by themselves. I'd rather have a house full of teens then not know what my child was doing or talking about. I think if this type of thought is set up early though, there is nothing to worry about because your children will respect it as normal, regardless of what their friends do. Namaste-Anora
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
That's the same rule we have at home.Some of my daughter's friends even tease her at times saying that her parents are overprotective but she would just say that their opinion doesn't matter at all. Thanks,Anora.Now I know that I'm not the only one doing this. Happy mylottin!
• United States
22 Mar 09
Thank for the BR. I'm glad I'm not the only parent with this type of thought where dating and my children are concerned.
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
I would not allow my teen to come with his friends without a chaperon, its' too scary in outside.
• Philippines
28 Feb 09
I agree with you julialaurene. have a happy weekend.
@merta815 (12)
• United States
25 Feb 09
I think it depends on the maturity level of the child. I have a 14 year old daughter who is extremly boy crazy and has already had a pregnancy. I would NEVER EVER let her out unaccompanied because she makes poor decisons. She believes any boy that looks her way is a potential boyfreind. On the other hand I also have a 10 year old daughter that is a devoted christian and makes good decisons in her life. I would let her go out unaccompanied when she turns 14 because she knows whats right and wrong.
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
thanks for sharing,merta. have a nice weekend!