things a girl might want but NEVER asks
@lovealmondroca (4)
Philippines
February 23, 2009 11:43pm CST
I found this really great countdown online and thought of sharing it. Some of it are quite true and bring flashbacks to my mind (not the word "some". So, I just wanna find out which of these are true, a hoax or in no way you want to be done to you fellow ladies.. :)
60 THINGS A GIRL WANTS BUT WON'T ASK
1. touch her waist
2. actually talk to her
3. share secrets with her
4. give her 1 of your sweatshirts
5. kiss slowly
6. hug her
7. hold her
8. laugh with her
9. invite her everywhere
10. hangout with her and your friends together
11. smile with her
12. take pictures with her
13. pull her onto your lap
14. when she says she loves you more, deny it. FIGHT BACK!
15. when her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.
16. always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.
17. kiss her unexpectedly.
18. hug her from behind around the waist
19. tell her she's beautiful
20. tell her the way you feel about her. one last thing you need to do to show her you actually MEAN it
21. open doors for her, walk her to her car -- it makes her feel protected. PLUS it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it
23. if it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means she doesn't want to talk about it - so just hug her.
24. make her feel loved
25. kiss her in front of other girls you know. GIRLS might deny it but they actually like it and kinda want you to tickle them.
26. DON'T lie to her
27. DON'T cheat on her
28. take her anywhere she wants
29. text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work and how much you miss her
30. be there for her whenever she needs you and even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.
31. hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too
32. when you are ALON hold her close and kiss her
33. kiss her on the CHEEK
34. while in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her shin and kiss her LIGHTLY
35. DON'T EVER tell her to leave and even jokingly or act like you're mad. If she's upset, comfort her.
36. when people DISS her, stand up for her
37. look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her
38. lay down under the stars and put her head on you chest so you can cuddle
39. when walking next to each other, grab her hand
40. when you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible
41. call or text her every night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. comfort her when she cries and wipe away tears
43. take her for LONG walks at night
44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
45. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her
46. rub her back, it feels good
47. give her your coat if she's cold -- that's always cute!
48. write letter on her back with your finger
49. let her sit on your lap
50. Don't poke her hard. but if you want to mess around, just do it lightly
51. HOLD her hand in public
52. even if she looks bad on day tell her she's beautiful
53. keep conversations flowing, talk about anything usually they just go along with it. (but NO boasting)
54. if their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionately and gently
55. surprisingly sneak up on her and hug her from behind
56. kiss her in the rain
57. pick her up like in the notebook and kis her
58. slow dance with no music
59. don't ignore her or be nervous around her -- everything's gonna be okay
60. love her, kiss her, hold her and you'll be good to go
3 responses
@lexi19 (25)
• United States
19 Mar 09
Wow i really like this. it is VERY true for most girls depending on their personality... but in general.. very true..
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.... ABSOLUTELY LOVE! especially when it's on the cheek or forehead
35. Don't ever tell her to leave and even jokingly act like your mad. This really makes a woman feel unwanted!
I don't necessarily agree with 23 though. There are several times I say "nothing" when asked what's wrong when there is obviously something... the best thing you can do is ask one more time... say "you really look upset, are you sure there's nothing you want to talk about"... if she still says no.... just bite your lip and say "ok, i'm here with open ears if you need me though"... it will make her feel like she can trust and count on you without forcing her to open up.
@sampotle (36)
• United States
24 Feb 09
My boyfriend is great, he pretty much does everything i could ask for. We love to cook together, he tells me i am the most important thing to him all the time, he hangs out with my friend and i and invites me everywhere, so my list is a little more specific...
1. Dont act stoic on the phone just because you are at band practice.
2. Be more outgoing with my cameras. I have so many cool lenses, you can use them all! Take pictures!
3. Give me quiet time. When i am on Mylot i just want to post and get off the computer. The more you talk the longer it will take.
4. This is important. Agree with me that 9/11 was a set up my the american government.
5. Let me win Mario Party mini games.
6. Be nicer to Gacey. He is the cutest skunk on earth and he thinks your his daddy!
@galileo2008 (1170)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
uhmm.. this is very true, however there are also some of them which I could ask to a guy:
1.Talk to me.
2.Hang out with me together with my friends.
3. Give me one of your sweatshirts.
4. Laugh with me.
5. Smile with me.
6. Hold my bag for me.
7. Take pictures with and please do smile.
8. Kindly open the door for me.
9. NEVER LIE to me.
10. DON't cheat on me.
11. Talk to me when I'm bored.
12. Please rub my feet to make me feel relaxed.
13. Hold me when I'm uncomfortable.
14. Don't you ever poke me hard...or else!
15. Love me the way that I want to..
hahah!!!