Restarting a relation with an ex-bf/gf
By Nivedita1
@Nivedita1 (47)
India
February 24, 2009 10:19am CST
If an ex- boyfriend/girlfriend who had dumped you in the past, FOR THEIR CONVENIENCE, come back to you and after some excuses and apologies want to start the same relationship afresh, is it advisable to get back into the relation with them again? Can they be trusted?
2 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
For me what is finished and done is finished. Sometimes I don't even consider it as a friend anymore. It's not easy to trust cause it is earn, I believe you one and that is enough, you have hurt me and I forgiven you, but to forget it's not easy to do. When you ask me to let go I did let go cause I know you'll be happy, so what is it to ask a relationship again after what you did for me was wrong and still I respect your happiness before. I did not forget her in just a night, it took time to go on. Realizing it was meant to be and I deserve someone better then you. Well if you can hurt me once you can hurt me twice. It's enough I have love her before. Have a nice day to you!
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I don't know. If my ex came to me saying he wanted me back I would seriously have to think about it because I loved him (and if I wasn't dating someone else). I would probably tell him if we did get back together I would be on guard and I wouldn't be so quick to allow myself to be vulnerable.