QUESTION: how did you know that your ready to get married??
By oinkgiz
@oinkgiz (863)
Singapore
February 24, 2009 10:20am CST
hi guys,
i'm currently in a relationship but have no idea when we want to get married, currently we just turn 1 year and we're happy together... we don't fight and we still love each other very much...
hmmmm... i'm just curious for those who already married or already planning to get married...
QUESTION: how did you know that your ready to get married??
i hope to see your post...
advance thank you for sharing...
have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
4 people like this
7 responses
@kaka135 (14931)
• Malaysia
25 Feb 09
Well, I've been together with my boyfriend for about 9 years until we got married. We actually are very sure that we are going to marry, but it's just the matter of time, as our relationship is firm and we are committed to each other. When I met this guy, I just knew that he's the guy I want to marry to. To get married, I'd prefer to be financial stable and I'm ready to be a mother, then we decided to get married. To me, getting married is about to develop a family, but not just about two of us, so perhaps my thinking is a bit different.
Happy mylotting.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
8 Apr 09
hi kaka. thanks for sharing.. thanks for responding to my discussion.
wow...9 yrs before getting married...that is so long but i guess after that 9 yrs both of you are sure enough to get married and sure for each other.
thanks again.
have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
25 Feb 09
Hi,
deeep inside Ur Heart,U'll hear the WEDDING BELL ringing....
=Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@Pleiades (846)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I suppose only you and he will ever know that answer. Me? I've been married too many times to think about and I highly doubt I'll do it again. It's not something that I know isn't for me and to be honest, if I get that serious with a man, I'd want to spend time with him as a person then that way I'll know how he acts and what is it about him that I can't stand. *lol*
*Pleiades
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
24 Feb 09
hi, thanks for your response... thanks for sharing... yup i know, we need to think twice if i'm ready or we're both ready to do something so serious which to commit to each other from the rest of our life... both of us need to be sure if we are so ready to take the next level...
thanks again...
have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I have been in a relationship since August of 2007 with the same person. I believe we both know we want to live the rest of of lives together, i think when you find that person you just know and the chemistry is there. I believe im ready because ive grown up so much and i believe he is ready to get out and have kids and be on our own.
A Relationship is something you want in life and if you find that right person you will know its the right person. You shouldnt have to ask if you want to be married to that person because you will just know.
@oinkgiz (863)
• Singapore
24 Feb 09
wow... thanks for sharing ... thanks for responding to my discussion... yup, i think your right... maybe as of now we both not ready to move to the next level... maybe as time passes we will realize that, that we want to live our life together for the rest of our life... or maybe we don't find the right person yet... but i dont judge yet we're still new in the relationship... as what you said... "we will just know if we want to get married and we dont need to ask"
thanks again...
have a nice day and happy mylotting... ^_^
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
24 May 09
i am already at a right age just need the right time and financial savings for that given event of my or our lives. my boyfriend and a fiance are already been together for 3years and 5 months and still going stronger. and the plan of getting married is already on the way. just need more time and money for it to really prosper.
@geniustiger (1694)
• Philippines
24 May 09
If you think you are equipped with evrything and
you have stable job and also your fiance it is the right
time to get in the marriage life. You think it twice
If you can handle the things to be prepared in marriage.
Ask yourself If you are ready to live with partner and
many trials to face as a family. There are many things to
consider in marriage life. Do you both responsible for
having kids soon? Does your relationship agrees with each other
and so with your coming both in laws? So many things to double check
before entering the marriage life.
@trixygirl (37)
• New Zealand
8 Apr 09
Hey there,
Yes I agree when you know you have the right person to be with for the rest of your life,then you both know when you are ready to get married,then the next step is finding a home,then having children!!!!,etc.
And sure it will happen when it will happen.