Over 55? Lock em up!
By p1kef1sh
@p1kef1sh (45681)
February 24, 2009 1:44pm CST
The UK doesn't have many gated communities expressly designed for senior citizens. However, I just saw a programme about a former holiday camp (like Guantanamo only with enforced "good times") that has been turned into a gated compound; er, luxury housing, for the over 55s. I know that the US has several such sites. The houses are luxury, there's plenty to do and they have 24/7 guarding. This isn't my idea of heaven, but I do see the appeal. Would you consider living in such a place. Do you live there in fact?
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
24 Feb 09
No, I don't consider living in gated community with people at the same age.
I wish to always be able to be around diversity. I wish to have kids, young, middle age and older people around. That is the only healthy solution...
HUGS
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I don't mind a gated community it's harder for thieves and what not(but I'm such an individual I don't think that I would thrive) .. But It depends on the gated community ..Currently I don't live in a gated community .. But when I lived in Texas our apartment complex was gated and then when we went to the town house it wasn't But the apartment complex when I lived thier had little crime and was nice and beautiful to live at. Ofcourse about over 18-20 yrs later, since I was in single digits when I lived in the apartment, I have no clue what type of apartment complex it is. LOL!! But back to a gated community it depends on the individual and the rules of the gated community ..
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@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Sure I would not mind living in such a place if someone else could pay the fees/rent. Here in the US these type of senior housing facilities are very expensive.
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@mummymo (23706)
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25 Feb 09
I saw a bit of that too honey and whilst I can sort of see the good points to it I think it would be my idea of hell rather than heaven! Surely mixing with all sorts of people from lots of social backgrounds and age groups is much more interesting than being with only our own generation where no one younger is allowed to live? Sound more like an extended Nursing home than anything else! xxx
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I would never live in such a place if I had a choice! When I lived in Arizona there was a place called Sun City and it was huge. They passed a law that nobody under 18 could be in their city after a certain hour unless they had business there like a job. Those old folks were so scared of young people it was creepy.
I like to live in a place with a lot of different ages, races and cultures. It makes it much more lively and interesting!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
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24 Feb 09
That's one of the problems. Thee places make it nice and cosy and the folks that live there withdraw from society to the point where they can become frightened of everyday stuff. On the other hand, They can go the same way dribbling in an old folks care home
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@nannacroc (4049)
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28 Feb 09
I don't thimk I'd like to be imprisoned for the 'crime' of being old. I would hate this. However it may come soon as the alternative to being shot once you're 30, the way this country is going they will soon take away our freedom to age as well as all the other things, such as eating what we want, kissing where we want,freedom of speech, etc.
Hadn't we used to lve in a democracy? Maybe that was something I dreamed.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
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28 Feb 09
Democracy. I believe that is a prohibited word Nanna and you will have to be sent in for reprogramming. You must be careful what you say. There are ears everywhere. I will get the thought control Commissar to call you at home tomorrow evening to discuss the matter.
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
26 Feb 09
these sorts of places are taking over here in australia,especially around where i live on the coast,the nicer ones cost a arm and a leg for anything decent.i don't think i could live in one as you seem to be living on top of each other and i certainly need my privacy,but each to their own.i suppose if your lonely these sorts of places would be ideal and then the security is good as well.i do a lot of house calls on patients who live in these sorts of places,and it drives me insane trying to get through the boom gates and every one is watching you,peeping out tjeir curtains.give me that stretch of beach anytime.cheers sue
@p1kef1sh (45681)
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26 Feb 09
I think that you do lose some privacy. As you say, all those twitching curtains. "I see Mr Bloggs has that young woman visiting him again. It's not his daughter because she was up at the weekend. With her boy. You know the blond haired one. Oooh, she's got a bag. I wonder what she's got in there....etc" eh Sue? LOL.
@littleowl (7157)
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25 Feb 09
Well I am thankful I haven't reached that age yet, and definitley don't feel like being 'locked' up each day!! No in one word I wouldn't want to live in a place like that even though my children have me booked into the funny farm when the time comes..yet maybbe the luxury house might appeal then not only to me but to my children rather than the clinical smell of the funny farm!!! hugs LoLo
@littleowl (7157)
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25 Feb 09
That would be fun p1ke at least we could have some laughs at the same time! lol hugs LoLo
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Feb 09
Don't like the idea. Maybe I"ll warm up to it when I'm older. Especially if I am by myself...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Feb 09
Ooh - I'm there. Can the coastline be in Hawaii?
@GreenMoo (11833)
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28 Feb 09
I think that would be my idea of hell.
I wouldn't object to the luxury housing, or to the plenty to do, but being locked in with a bunch of people who thought that living in a gated compound was the way forward would have me climbing the barbed wire.
The Big Brother house comes to mind!
@Vladilyich1 (1454)
• Canada
4 Mar 09
There are many such "gated communities" in America. They're mostly set up for security and to prevent salesmen. They are more expensive that standard flats, but the security is worth it. Many will even have cafeterias and food stores on the property.
@Humbug25 (12540)
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24 Feb 09
Hi there p1kef1sh
I don't think I qualify to respond to your discussion p1key and I am not sure you qualify to start it either!! Anyway I will have a go anyway as I am here!! LOL I think I would feel cut off from the world if I lived in such a place and would also feel like a prisoner in my own surroundings so I would have to say that it doesn't hold any appeal to me at all!
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
26 Feb 09
You don't like Sunshine Acres? No I don't live in such a place and 99 percent sure I never will. It is to costly. I guess it is the feeling of security they get from living in places like that. I know my mom would probably love it because she is a people person.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
25 Feb 09
Well, here in the U.S. a lot of people do put their parents in retirement homes.
My mother and I did not put my grandmother in a retirement home when she got older, she decided to put herself there, we didn't want her to go.
@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
25 Feb 09
I was wrenched out of hibernation, see my history. Pike i find your reference racist, intolerable. You know I love you. There are not many of us that would have gone to sleep knowing that people are tortured.
She came from providence,
The one in rhode island
Where the old world shadows hang
Heavy in the air
She packed her hopes and dreams
Like a refugee
Just as her father came across the sea
She heard about a place people were smilin
They spoke about the red mans way,
And how they loved the land
And they came from everywhere
To the great divide
Seeking a place to stand
Or a place to hide
Down in the crowded bars,
Out for a good time,
Cant wait to tell you all,
What its like up there
And they called it paradise
I dont know why
Somebody laid the mountains low
While the town got high
Then the chilly winds blew down
Across the desert
Through the canyons of the coast, to
The malibu
Where the pretty people play,
Hungry for power
To light their neon way
And give them things to do
Some rich men came and raped the land,
Nobody caught em
Put up a bunch of ugly boxes, and jesus,
People bought em
And they called it paradise
The place to be
They watched the hazy sun, sinking in the sea
You can leave it all behind
And sail to lahaina
Just like the missionaries did, so many years ago
They even brought a neon sign: jesus is coming
Brought the white mans burden down
Brought the white mans reign
Who will provide the grand design?
What is yours and what is mine?
cause there is no more new frontier
We have got to make it here
We satisfy our endless needs and
Justify our bloody deeds,
In the name of destiny and the name
Of god
And you can see them there,
On sunday morning
They stand up and sing about
What its like up there
They call it paradise
I dont know why
You call someplace paradise,
Kiss it goodbye
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
25 Feb 09
That will be a ideal place for the senior citizens. OldĀ persons feel loneliness.Actually the young people avoid the elderly persons.If the old people can live together in a good atmosphere they will forget their loneliness.But these places must not be costly.Why are you telling about Guantanamo?This is a torture center.When you say about Guantanamo a horror picture comes to my eyes.
@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
25 Feb 09
I think that if I had no other options this would be something I would consider. I am not too happy about the idea of 24 hour supervision, I guess it just sounds a little more like an old folks prision that a retirement home. I am not too sure though, I really would have to have no other options and I have to say that if I had an elderly relative, I don't think that I would put them in that home either. I understand that they have plenty to keep them busy but it still seems a little too restrictive for my tastes. Happy mylotting.
@ninakathy (10)
• China
25 Feb 09
I do consider living in a place like that,although it seems too far at this moment.I think maybe there are many peaple want to live that way.