Advise for All Who are in Love.........!

Are we speaking from experience here ? :) When I was in my teenage years I rush to fall in love and have a relationship with guys.. its very easy for me to get close to a guy, and thought that I love him, and start dating and stuff, but none of the relationship work out well because usually after a few months, I got bored with that guy, break up with him, and start again with a new guy... Anyways I learnt my lessons, here is what I find. For those of you who are single, dont worry or stressing out about having a partner, there is always someone special for you. As stated above, God is in the process of writing out the best love story for you.. instead, take this opportunity to know yourself better and to know what you wanted in this life. For those in the brink of having a committed relationship with someone - please think with your head rather than your heart. A relationship requires effort, it is not just all sweet romance, are you really ready to commit to it? Do not make the same mistake that I did - which is just going out with every guy I feel that I like and breaking up with them short after .. you are hurting a lot of people in the process, and you are hurting yourself too. For those already in a relationship - you all know that all those "lovey dovey" feeling didnt last more than a few months right? There are arguments, there are fights, there are problems, and sometimes we feel that the love is just not there anymore. Truth is, love is always there, we may not feel it, but its there. Love is something that we need to work on to enjoy, a relationship requires hardwork from both side, commitment, trust, faith and open communication.

That is a nice way of putting it. Yes that is a great advise. I think it is society who really puts this pressure on to people that they should be married. They even had a word for those who aren't that is really kind of degrading. I remember my father who used to ask me when I will get married. I am still single and my age is way off the calendar but I am fine. So when I ask, I will always tell my father that I still have not found what I am looking for. And I would not rush into a relationship because I felt I need to because I am getting old. :)