will you wait for true love

I believe in true love but it is really hard to know which one would it be. You're in a tough situation and I admire you for waiting for him. He is really lucky and I hope he is really trustworthy. I'm glad that my boyfriend lives in a town just an hour away from me. He is planning to work abroad but he said he will not go without me. I think I'll go crazy if he won't be near me for so long ... LOL ... Goodluck to you and your boyfriend. Happy MyLotting! =)

Maybe your friends are right. What if your boyfriend says one thing to you in the internet but he means the other? I mean, you can't really give your full trust to a person whom you haven't really met personally and face to face. I think you should invite him to come and meet you personally. If he is really sincere with you, he would take time to come and see you, then get to know you more personally. Good luck my friend!

I am waiting because I believe in TRUE LOVE. In your case, there is so much to risk in that kind of arrangement. I am not saying that TRUE LOVE can't be found online. But it can only be felt and realized when you are together and in your case, you are apart from each other. I can't blame your friends for telling you to stop that because really it may only give you false hopes. However, if you believe that you can find true love in this person then try. It may end up to nothing but it can also end up to a happy ending. You will never know until you try. In my case, I am still waiting. Waiting for the right time, right girl, and right love.

yeah i think that is good to wait for true. but the problem is where to look for true love and it is not easy to know if we really truly love a person. i mean that was my problem before. i can't really tell if i really the person out some superficial reason or if i really truly the person from within. but once that you have known that we or you truly the person that we can just wait for that person only and not wait for any one else. too bad. i have not found any true love yet though i have fallen in love many times or million of times in my life.

Hi there, if I were in your situation, I would plan to meet him as soon as possible. I totally believe that you can find love on the internet but when you meet there needs to be a spark as well. Also, you need to make sure that he is the person you think he is. You hear all too often about people lying over the internet as its so easy. I really hope this is not the case for you. I think that if you meet him then you can make an informed decision as to whether this is the person you have been waiting for all of your life. It sounds as if your life is on hold for this person. You need to meet him and make a decision. If he is making excuses for not meeting up then you need to think about it really carefully. Have you planned to meet before?

I think I can understand what's you feeling. I once have an similar experience.I met a boy online ,we chat free online and I feel life was so good.We didn't see each other in the real life,even online through the video,I only saw him a time,just for one minute.so I can't remember his appearance.we keep in touch online and by phone calls ,of course the most frequent text messages.I enjoyed such a feeling.and do everything more active,I stay up late for study and never feel tired because I know he was behind me and stayed up with me too in spite of the distance. At that time,I never doubt about our future,except one day ,I suddenly find myself can't concentrat on the class,then I know I can't go on ,it's time to give up.For the real distance is over us .and besides him ,I have my own life,I have to study,I have to make my own friends and live my own life.If I kept addicted to him.then my life would be over. I finally say good bye to him.and for a long time ,I feel lonely and miserable ,but time is really a good medicine to cure any feelng wound .Now I overcame it .and to live my normal college life. It's hard to say whether it is right or wrong.but I just want to say:"you love him.you should also love yourself .so try not to make yourself hurt.good luck to you!"

Hi,there,I have such kind of boyfriend for nearly 8 years.lol.No kidding! We never meet in person and we dont chat much.I just have strong feeling that he is the one.And he tells me he feels the same way as I do.He says he cant afford a marriage now and he's leaving for New York to make his fortune. Im not sure whether he is a total liar. Just wait and see.Im always been waiting for my true love,and how I hope he's really the one!

Well all I can say is if your meant to be for each other it will happen. True love comes when least expect it. It does not matter how you come about love. I don't see anything wrong having to fall in love in the internet. It happens and it has happened to me before. But unfortunately it did not work but I hope your do. Good luck!

Hello cindyhxf! All I can say is follow your heart. We have the same situation. My husband and I met online and we are thousand miles away. We've been talking for 2 1/2 years online without meeting in person. My friends used to tell me not to believe it and that it will go nothing and don't expect too much. Until one day he decided to come and visit me last year. We met in person last July 2008 and we got married. We are far away right now because I can't just go with him but we're waiting for my visa now. I would join him hopefully this year. So, I am still waiting for my love and will always wait because I know my wait will be over soon.

I do not think I could love somebody just by seeing them and talking via phone/computer.. I actually have to know a person.

I had the same experience many years ago when I was 19 yeas old. :). The boy and I chatted so great and I even thought I had met my true love. Unfortunately, we lost touch with each other. Luckily, I finally found my true love in real life. We have been in love for more than two years. If I were you, I will keep this wonderful feeling. But I still suggest you two should see each other ASAP. No matter what relationship you will be, just believe in true love and you will get your happiness.

Wait for him if he did not appear without a valid reason or proff then leave him because he might be playing with ur heart........ maybe not too. This also happened to me but he came and i was glad and happy i could jump... maybe it will happen to u too

I met my true love online we chat every day and talk on the phone and I support him in everything as he does for me!. If he loves you he will come. But that feeling is a very special feeling I know where you are.

for me, the most important is their attitudes... think abt that.

I did, and I am glad for it. It's okay to wait for the right person to come along. People who rush it, or people who jump into love and marriage, they usually get what they did not want, and they don't realize it until it is too late.

I understand your situation. You might have heard a lot of people said to you that is not true and no internet love stuff like that, but I believe love this thing is hard to explain to people who are not in this relationship. Only you and him know things between you and him so I would suggest you can talk to him and ask him for the flight confirmation(if you and him live in different country) so you don't need to miss him and at least you know when is the date you can actually see him. I wish you th best in this relationship :-) Hopefully he is coming to visit you soon!

Drat, I had to restart this response because my computer froze. Oh well, it's worth it to find and respond to. Don't give up hope, bah on those that give you seeds of doubt. Life is hard enough without it. So, you've found yourself someone online and have been with him for six months? That's really good to hear. Granted, I don't know who you are but when I hear of things like this, it makes me happy inside. Only because I'm going through the samething. My boyfriend is stationed in Iraq and will be for another few months. We've known each other for six years but we've been going out for about six months. I know that with a long distance, you're lacking things like physical contact and stuff, but the emotional connection makes up for it. As long as both of you are happy and willing to wait, then it's a true romantic story. *Pleiades

Hi, For a costly DIAMOND set, r u not ready to wait? Why will U not wait for Ur TRUE Love? For SOMETHING precious, U must have enough Patience. ...It will SWEET,No Doubt! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.