what's marrige mean?
@christina1989 (462)
China
February 25, 2009 7:19pm CST
what's marrige mean?my boyfriend asked me to marry him in 2011.but i'm hasitated to do that.i'm 22 years old.i will be 24 years old in 2011.i'm still young.the same as my boyfriend.i don't want to get marry.there are too many possibility for our young.but marrige may be a fetter for us.but if we don't get marry,i may lose my love,how should i do?
1 response
@NuttyMomma (901)
• United States
26 Feb 09
marriage is not only an emotional commitment but a legal one. you sound way too immature to even be considering the idea. when you marry someone it is because you have found the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. you promise to be faithful to them, to love them no matter what happens. life is full of challenges and being married means going through that together. if you are afraid of losing someone because you are not ready to be married then maybe you should lose them. no one should force you into something you are not ready for.
@christina1989 (462)
• China
26 Feb 09
maybe you are right.i love him,i don't want to lose him.but i'm still not ready for marrige.now what should i do?
@NuttyMomma (901)
• United States
26 Feb 09
christina you need to be honest with him and tell him how you feel. you are just not ready for marriage yet but you still want him in your life. honesty is one of the most important things to have in a good relationship. along with respect for yourself and the one you love. if he loves you, he will allow your relationship to grow and possibly someday when you are both ready it will become more.
