Without money, would she still love you?

United States
February 25, 2009 8:50pm CST
Majority of girls nowadays are realistic. They might love you one day, what if one day you are out of money, would she still love you. Will "love" bring a loaf of bread to your table? What is real security to women today?
4 responses
• China
26 Feb 09
Hi,Just make it clear whether she likes you or your money.if you have enough money,your qeustion disappear.But if you do have no money,and you love her,Please don't make her feel that you will have no money all the time.For without money,both of you can not go on!So keep your ambitions and earning your life. I am a girl,my boy friend can have no money for a time,but he can not lose his ambitions.Thank you! Enjoy your time!
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
i agree. if a guy loves you, he will not stay penniless for long to be able to provide for you and your family. he will not let you be the only bread winner of the family. he will still want to feel that he is the head of the family and provider. there may be times that he can have no money for a time but you can see he is patiently applying for a job to earn.
@hollysun (97)
• China
28 Feb 09
Yes,I agree with your opinion that many girls nowadays are realistic,but i can't agree with your opinion that they won't love men when the men have not money.I confess that there are part of girls worship money and they are pure materialism,but,the majority of girls are good,they still think love above all else ,they will love their lovers selflessly ,regardless of whether he is rich.As far as i'm concerned,women pay more attention to feelings than men,and in a family ,women are always the most srenuous and tired,men should understand women more.
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
27 Feb 09
I would still anyone I loved, reguardless of their economic status. Money doesn't matter to me. I only require that the person be telling to work. I don't abide shiftless folks.
• United States
26 Feb 09
If you had lots of money then it might be hard to find a girl who really loves you for you and not your money. I say what people with money should do is not really let it show too much on the first couple dates and see how far you end up with that person and then let the bag out that you make good money. Sure a girl will probably like you a little more but then it wouldnt be based on the money if they didnt know in the beginning.