what kind of person are you?

wow what a task, I am happy I didn't have to do it.

and what got me the peices that was holding us up was still setting by the bending machine when I got thm trackeddown! then I had to get Super to get the order back in so we could finish our job and some had to be out that night I think that was one day we stayed 16 hours to finish the job order!

Lazy? Well then I would have to offer something as a incentive to make them want to do it. Like Movie money if it was a kid or a teen..adult though..different matter altogether. I am lazy so I know where they would be coming from and sometimes it takes alot for me to get going..and I would try to find that one thing that helped get them going. Some aren't just lazy though they just don't have the umpf! to get up and do. So I would help them and in seeing that half the work load was taken off then that might get them to help me. I am not going to yell,or go nuts on someone for having the same feelings as me not wanting to do but they aren't forcing themselves like me to push hard to get it done faster and over with so I can go back to being me..

not always, my son is lazy no amount of money in the world or whatever bribe you want to give him will work if he doesn't want to do something.

yep but what if they are just plain lazy?

yep that would get on anyone's nerves that is for sure

thank you for giving me an idea of the type of person that you are

and for the question now that am working or any craft that i do i see to it that i will do my best to finish it no matter what, if someone keeps on bugging on me i'll just stay focus, prioritize what to do first, complete the task as much as possible earlier on the deadline or even do a multi-tasking but have a perfect result/outcome. Godabless!0=)

did it bother you that somebody else didn't do their share?

well if it was work related then i usually was bored from being done to where i wanted something to do and didnt mind helping.. i think if they were honestly behind but were trying to get it done it woudlnt bother me much.. but the people that just figure they if they dont do it some one else will get on my nerves quickly and eventually i will stop helping them even if it means i will die of boredom just because its not fair for me to have to do their work

thanks for the br

good for you hon

thanks so much for you answer hon

it makes perfect sense to me, thanks for your response hon, and happy easter.

yes that really is the best way to be.

It doesn't always work out of course, but it's the "trying" that matters. There's always something crops up at a most inconvenient time.

excellent points hon,

I realized that I missed some of what you asked about. Sometimes in an environment where it is a group effort I will do more than my share. I will do other peoples work, or HELP them get their work done a little quicker if I've finished mine. Generally I don't complain if I feel I've done more than my share. I figure everyone has off days and everyone has their shortcomings. I think because I am so aware of my shortcomings I am able to be more forgiving when other people need an extra hand. Now, if the person were to continually abuse my generosity, then, I MIGHT complain or I might just stop being so helpful. Pretty much the only circumstances where I might complain more frequently about lack of help would be at home, when I feel my kids aren't helping out as much as they should. That varies depending on how helpful or unhelpful they are being and what other things are going on in our lives.

general personality characteristics apply in any situation, a procrastinator waits until the last minute regardless, then rushes like a fool to get it done or never gets it done at all, it doesn't matter if company is coming or it is general housework that needs to be done, it is there style, for example laundry, a procrastinator may not do the washing until there is not one clean pair of socks in the house, even then I knew a girl once that when all her socks were dirty she didn't wash them she threw them away, that is a general personality trait, this same girl would want until the last minute to leave the house and often be late for where ever she had to go, she would do her homework at the last minute and often never completed it, the philosophy of a procrastinator is oh it can wait I will do it another time,

I am not saying when company is coming that I put everything off until the last minute. I might wait until the day they are arriving to dust since it is so windy where I live and things get dusty so fast and easily. I do like for things to look nice when company is coming to town to visit.

thank hon, you just do your work but do you ever do other peoples work too, or do you get mad at them if they don't do their own work,

yes you are absolutely right,

Of course, during my course yesterday I thought about one person at my job. She is srressing all of my cow workers out. She is a typical A-type. I do not do her work, however, I do mine and do not think about hers. She do not stress me up,I can handle her pretty well, but I know that she stresses others up and they get really angry with her. This is of course a problem, and I have told them to talk with our bos about this. She is like want to do everything by her self, but are not willing to take the responsibility by her self. Here is what she did last week. Every friday we are supose to have a nice time in the afternoon with the eldre. Have coffee and home baked coffee sweets that we have done together in the AM with some of the eldre. this specifik day we were three working together, Me, she and another cow worker. On thursday She worked and were supose to order the stuff needed for making a cake. I had AM of, and should be at work later on that afternoon for having the evening shift, She phoned ME during the day and asked ME what we should do, and what we should need for making the cake or what ever we were going to make. Now, She said - you are here almost every day and know what to get. That is living the responsibility to some one els...but, she could have made the desicion her self. She did not need to phone ME to take the desicion. The third cow worker asked me in the morning the next day what we were going to bake, and I said to her what happen the day before...and I said, since she called me I had to make a desicion. She was a bit surprised and perhaps a bit disappointed. And I fully understand her...but she did understand me...I was not to blame. She and I are working this friday to so I let her make the desicion for this weeks coffee cake. I had a talk with my bos about this, and she promised me to have a talk with her. Just becouse I am a full time worker, and she is a part time worker, does not mean she do not have a responsibility to make her own minds and take some desicions on her own. Of course I am working fulltime, I am at work a lot. But this activity of work do not hang on me being there or make the desicions to make it work. We are a team of worker who have different working time, but have the same responsibility to make desicions on a daily bases. When I am not at work, I am not there, nor in mind or personal, then I should not be involved.

yep responsibility is a big issue and hard sometimes to do.

Well,i am just an ordinary person with big dreams in my eyes.I am someone who trust people very early[no matter how many times ppl hav broken my trust.I love freakin out with my friends.I am tat kind of person who love the rain and the dark but scared of many things like lightening,thunderstorms.I care about those who care about me and fu*k those who hate me.In the end,I can conclude it by saying i live my life in my own way.

yes hon, you are a leader and an organizer by character that shows very clearly

that is the best way to be

yes but that happens to everyone, there are certain tasks we don;t like and put aside but generally you are not a procrastinator you like to get you things done in good time.

my son is the same way like you, he won't do it if you hound him about it.

yes when you work hard all day, sometimes it is just hard to get to work again when you get home.

yes I agree with you, I like to be way as well, and I hate waiting on people too.

yes that is right my friend